So I’ve had 2 interactions with same outcome: girls are flaking or indecisive of being attracted to me.

One, I met her through friends, I went on doing kino, escalated sexually and got her number, notice that we haven’t had the time to be alone, we are always with said group of friends. Not sure if it matters but she was going through a break up.

Second girl, same, met her in a bar through a group of friends, I did kino (hip grabbing, arm, hand touching, everything), escalated sexually, got her number, still no real time to be alone. This one had a boyfriend.

Both have flaked when I invite them out, not sure if it is because I have failed to alienate them from the group, building trust or just their emotional situation?