Check my post history for details, but I found out that my wife slept with someone who I considered to be a friend at the time. They both lied to my face about it but I got the truth out of her. Like many here, that's what set me on my RP journey.

So this guy - I'm gonna run into him again. He lives in the neighborhood next to mine. Either at the grocery store, golf course, hardware store.....somewhere sometime I'm going to bump into him.

What's the proper frame for this situation? I can tell you what I want to do - fucking destroy him. He's a couple inches taller than me but noodle armed. No doubt in my mind that I'd mop the floor with him in a fight.

Other points to consider: I have a great career that I don't want to lose. I also am an elected official in my community and regularly get quoted in the papers for the initiatives we approve/deny. So getting arrested would certainly literally make headlines and could cost me my career.

But I still would beat his ass if I saw him right now. A man's game charges a man's price.

So what is the proper way to handle when I run into him? What kind of frame? Oh - this dude is also a deadbeat dad to his kid, something I would likely remind him of quickly.