Girlfriend dumped me, went on a date, she found out and freaked out.

babybopp · 2018-04-11T02:15:47+00:00

she sounds bitter and hurt that she doesn't have control over you anymore. she wanted a response out of you to validate her self/her decision

mrbfs · 2018-04-11T02:50:38+00:00

Don't respond

TheRedPrince99 · 2018-04-11T04:16:54+00:00

You’ve won.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-04-11T03:49:31+00:00

I was never talking shit either. I was just talking to this girl about the circumstances that lead to the breakup

A. Don't do this as a general rule, and

B. Girls twist shit up to create drama.

C. Fuck the little sister.

ProMathlete · 2018-04-11T03:12:05+00:00

No response. Enjoy your life without this narcissistic drama queen

0x9A30D7C49714D98000 · 2018-04-11T02:18:06+00:00

lmao, well, say goodbye to any chance you ever had of getting back together with that sweet young lady

frankreyes · 2018-04-11T07:54:06+00:00

social validation: you went on a date with someone in her close circle of girlfriends. Your ex is afraid that your date would like you, and she will tell other girls about you, she will look bad, meaning that she made a mistake by breaking up with you. she wants to lower your smv. good job

TheChemister · 2018-04-11T07:16:14+00:00

Girls love to go with the "wasted X amount of time" line.

cl3537 · 2018-04-11T02:42:21+00:00

I hope you didn't respond to that drama.

MattyAnon · 2018-04-11T12:13:09+00:00

you ever had of getting back together. I can't believe you. Thanks for wasting the last year and a half of my life.

Amazing isn't it? She dumps you, but now you go out on a date and her time is suddenly wasted.

I don't understand what exactly she's mad about

She's upset about what you said about her (as she implies), or most likely: she expected to leave you broken and single and a loser so that she could feel she won, feel superior, feel better than you. But you're going out on dates, so now she's not so sure she made the right choice. This makes her insecure and destroys her closure (feeling of satisfaction, superiority and loss of attraction).

[deleted] · 2018-04-11T02:20:47+00:00

I’d just respond with “lol” and ghost her ass

MrAnderzon · 2018-04-11T03:15:19+00:00

Ex girlfriend should be on your blocked list for your phone and social media accounts and any of her friends and family.

kick6 · 2018-04-11T12:50:09+00:00

You didn't follow the rom-com plan of chasing. You're fucking her movie relationship up, man!

cappadocianhawk · 2018-04-11T09:26:28+00:00

She's dead to you, who cares what she thinks? Never give them closure.

anon_nonapplicable · 2018-04-11T15:14:23+00:00

Sounds just like my current ex

'I can't believe we've been together for a year and a half and you already moved on, you can forget getting back with me'

Women don't like men who have abundance mentality/outcome independency

justicecantakeanap · 2018-04-11T04:59:31+00:00

Dodged a bullet, don't respond ever again

Narcissist456 · 2018-04-11T06:33:49+00:00

Typical.

mushroom_overlord · 2018-04-11T07:14:29+00:00

Why do you care? Be glad she isn't going to bother you trying to get back together, or at least hasn't yet. Forget that bitch.

RomeNeverFell · 2018-04-11T13:35:17+00:00

Did you fuck your Tinder date?

huge_gap · 2018-04-11T14:02:57+00:00

Stop listening to what women say and look at what they do.

when_in_rhone · 2018-04-11T08:13:05+00:00

Let’s be real here. You talked shit and got busted.

Your response to her shouldn’t exist and your method going forward should refrain from discussing previous relationships. You’re not in counseling, you’re on a date. Avoid discussing ex’s. Lead the conversation forward and enjoy your single lifestyle.

WoodWizzy87 · 2018-04-11T15:25:32+00:00

“K bye”

friendandadvisor · 2018-04-12T01:17:55+00:00

Who gives a shit. Did you fuck the Tinder date?

Further, don't respond to your ex.

NolanKnowstheTruth · 2018-04-11T12:33:07+00:00

She dumped you to fuck Chad and was waiting until Chad was done with her before coming back to you and saying "I realized that I truly love only you, lets get back together". Showing her you have options or aren't going to wait, unleashed the scorned woman scenario.

I would send her a "What makes you think I would have gotten back together with you" text and watch the hampstering begin. You may be able to turn her into a plate, if you are so interested.

nwhitey12 · 2018-04-11T11:12:42+00:00

I don't understand why you care enough to make a post, this isn't even crazy bitch stuff this is just how the average womam behaves

firewaterdirt · 2018-04-11T10:22:01+00:00

Write back: "AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH CYA BITCH!!!"

Title	Girlfriend dumped me, went on a date, she found out and freaked out.
Author	TheChemister
Upvotes	75
Comments	65
Date	April 11, 2018 1:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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