It's been almost two months since I posted anything here and my situation has improved a lot, although getting quite complicated sometime. I would like your insight guys on some of the girls I see at the moment and am going to make a separate post about each one. This is the one I want to hear your thoughts about first. It we be quite detailed.

I have this 22yo HB7 Venezuelian plate I met on Tinder. We fucked on our first date and honestly the sex with her is amazing. She loves to play the resistance game then sumbit to rough sex including slapping, choking, facefuck etc.

We have seen each other 4 times now. Each time, even the first night, she tells me this is the last time and also resists via text.

The last time I wanted to see her, the convo by text went like this (I'm european so this is translated to english):

Me : Hey

Her : I told you we weren't going to see each other again. i wasn't joking that day.

Me : I don't get it.

Her : What ?

Me : Is there a problem ?

Her : No, It's just that I don't want this type of relationship anymore.

Me : Ok what do you want ?

Her : Something nice, not just sex.

Me : For that we have to see each other.

Me : Right ?

Her : You told me you didn't want anything special, that's what I told to myself not to try.

Me : We'll see each other again then.

Her : What does that mean ?

Me : That texting is useless

Her : When are you free ?

After that we texted for logistics.

We then met outside, ate something and went to grab a beer. She then proceeded to tell me that she started seeing guy she met at her work (she's a waitress). An obviously beta guy who is really nice with her, promise her lots of thing, took her out a couple of times already and even slept next to her without fucking her "because he respects her". She tells me that it's nice and that she wants to try something with him because she wants "something nice", but she adds that she doesn't feel the same way with him that she does with me. She likes how I treat her, how I'm sometimes mean to her. We agreed that the sex is pretty damn cool. I told her I don't just like the sex with her, I like being around her because she's fun and I like her voice (that sexy accent, I just can't resist it, plus she's an amateur singer). I told her that relationships are not negotiable. If two persons want to see each other, they just keep seing each other until one of them doesn't want to, simple as that. I want to see her and so does her so there's no problem.

Later that night, I brought her home and gave her the hard pounding she deserved, after she emotionnally opened up about some personnal issues and cried a bit on my shoulder. We fucked twice for quite some time and it was dawn good. She was very into me. She again proceeded to tell my that it was the last time, that she was conflicted because she wanted to see me but she thought I was gonna hurt her. She sucked my dick in the morning because her pussy was too sore from the night before but I still ate her out, then fucked her afterwards.It was short because she was already late for work but very intense, locking eyes etc.

I didn't contact her for the next two days. Then I tried to contact her with a simple "hi you" but no response. Tried again the next day and she gave me the same stuff : we can't see each other, I don't know what I feel blablabla. I called her, she talked about how she still sees the other dude etc, how he promise things to her and when we talked we didn't say much about what we are. But I managed to make her say that she still wanted me. I didn't see her that night.

The next morning she sends me a text. I left some space between the message but the convo went like this :

Her : I'm sorry but we have to stop there, that's best for you and me believe me. Otherwise we're gonna hurt each other, I really enjoyed our moments together, all the best, kiss.

Me : That's bullshit

Me : But it's ok, I know we're gonna see each other again anyway.

Her : No, I say the truth, please stop going after me.

Me : Te mando un abraso.

Her : Me too.

Her (that night) : Are you free tonight ?

Me (two hours later): No.

Me (24 hours later) : We'll see each other when I come back.

That last text is because I'm now away for work until next week-end. That's why I need your advice on how to manage this while I'm in another city for five days. Do I wait for her to get back at me ? Do I contact her during the week ? Just the day before I could meet her ?

I am seeing other girls and she knows it, but she never had a problem with it. She insisted more on the fact that she wants something "nice" and not just sexual. I have played a very alpha game with her, but I feel like it could be ok to soften it a bit and add some beta elements so she doesn't get fully commited to a beta instead. Also, I like her for the sex a lot but we also have good times and quite some fun. I appreciate her shit tests and she also sings for me which is a nice plus. I could see myself trying some FWB/non-exclusive long term plate relationship with her.

Please don't tell me to next her or that I have oneitis because I won't and I don't. Or maybe I do ? If it is possible to have oneitis for different girls at the same time then that's maybe what is happenning to me. I do feel some emotions towards her but I also do for another girl, which I will mention in my next post. The other ones I just fuck them when I can. But yes I love women and don't see them just as sex objects when I feel that there actually is some sort sparkle between us, which doesn't happen all the time. I'm finally out of the anger phase and start enjoying girls for what they are and not just their pussy.

Apart from her continuous (harder and harder) pushaway game towards me, she doesn't give me lot of bullshit and is a nice girl. She despises feminism, communism and the like, she appreciates bringing her feminine energy into my masculine frame, and it generates that good old primal alchemy that we superior men all crave. That's what matters the most to me.

So that's that. What do you guys think about this situation ?

It puzzles me a bit because it looks that this specific shit-test (we can't see each other again) could be answered in two ways : IDGAF, ghosting, nexting etc, or keep frame without entering her emotional debate and simply state that we'll do, in fact, see each other again because I want so and knows she wants it too. So far, I adopted the second strategy and it seems to work. But will it in the long run ?

What do you think of my reactions, and what would you do if you were in my shoes ?

I won't become exclusive to anyone for the moment, but I'd like to not only spin short-term plates. In fact, I just want to develop long term relationships with girls that I like and who like me even stronger.