(Sorry for my English, not a native speaker. The conversations that was had are also translated and thus do not really sound as good in english. Keep this in mind)
Virgin at 19, discovered TRP when I was 18, been lifting consistently for 2 years (fuckarounditis for 1.5 years before that), BJJ for 1 year. Pretty good body by irl standards, defined chest, big arms, broad shoulders, 6 pack abs etc etc. Read the sidebar, the rational male, the book of pook. Started becoming more confident socially. Practically lost my social anxiety and developed my social skills alot by slowly lowering my inhibition through the "snowball effect" that hearthistes talks about.
But recently I had delved into incel/lookism circles which fucked my mind a bit with its toxicities and it created some insecurities for me. Started thinking I would never get laid because of ugly face (recessed, weak and narrow chin and "horrible" eye area according to incels) as well as my height (5'9, which is also "horrible" according to incels). These insecurities caused me to not approach women at all and basically ignore the IOIs I was getting.
Then yesterday I was shirtless and removing some weeds from our lawn in the front our the house when a cute girl (6/10, girl next door vibe) was walking and she was definitely checking me out so I said fuck it. I said Hi and smiled. She smiled too and said Hi back, then she said "Wow, you live here? It's a really nice house"
I said jokingly "Nah, I'm just the butler, take out the trash, cut the grass etc. I know the guy who lives here though"
She starts giggling "You do? How is he like"
"He has a beard, about this tall (holding my hand in my head level). He's pretty buff too, and he walks around shirtless alot. He tells me it's because he needs the vitamin D but I just think he is a douche" while smirking
Now she starts giggling even more and she says "He sounds pretty interesting..."
Then I made some more small talk with her, then I told her we have a pool at the back of the house and he likes to swim in it at night, and I gave her my number and told her "I could set her up on a date with him". She smiles and I then hug her and tell her I'll see her.
Fast forward to the date she immediately tells me she is really excited as she has never met a guy as "smooth" as me. She then starts telling a lot of things about herself, she likes to ride horses, she is getting a degree in psychology bla bla bla. She then asks me about the house asks if I'm rich. I just laugh and tell her no, I'm just a "parasite that lives off his parents" and I will move out when I start uni. Then after a while in the pool I decided I needed to work some more kino so I told her try out and get her back massaged from the hole where the clean water is pumped in to the pool, I did this while putting a hand on her waist and in her hand to direct her there. I could tell she really enjoyed my touch so I locked eyes with her then went in for the kiss. We kissed for about 1 min straight but then I got a bit too excited and I guess forgot to push more on the escalation and she hit me with some LMR and tells me she is "not that kind of girl" and needs to get to know me more before having sex after I grabbed her ass and she felt my hard dick against her.
So I told her no problem and backed off and went up to dry myself. She then followed me and we layed and snuggled a bit in our outdoor couch that is poolside. She was really feeling my muscles and complementing them and I had a hand on her ass again this time without objections. I was looking at the stars and she asked what I thought about them, and I dont know if I did the right thing but I started telling her about some nerdy facts about stars and the universe/multiverse etc. She wasnt really engaged in the conversation but I didnt really care, I just liked talking about it and I could see she liked listening to me talking even if she didnt care/understand what I was talking about. Then she went for the kiss while I was talking and I escalated and f-closed right on the couch.
Today she texted me that she really enjoyed her time but will be out of town for a few days but would love to meet up with me again when she is back.
I really was surprised of this whole interaction. I was in the zone and it felt almost effortless. Now that I think about it I think it was because I was on a roll that day, my inner game was solid because I had crushed a deadlift PR that morning, I had run some errands successfully and got accepted to the university I wanted to. So I felt on top of the world already and didnt try to extract any value from the girl, which led to outcome dependence and non neediness.
I was also in disbelief I managed to get a girl so attracted to me we could have sex the same day, even when my face was pretty ugly or atleast below average. I dont think it was because of "beta bux" either because she knew the house wasn't mine, plus she was 18 and lived with her parents aswell so she was not in the need of a beta bux. Plus she fucked me the same day of meeting her, that means I'm not beta bux right?
So what did I do wrong/right? What can I improve? Is this normal or was I really lucky? If I was lucky, how do I hang on to this girl without becoming needy/beta? Thanks.