My girlfriend spends too much time with this guy

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August 9, 2018
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I have been in a relationship with her for 3 years almost. We both study and studied together.

Recently I found out she has been hanging out with this guy quite a lot. They spend 8+ hours together in the local library, go for food together, some days comes back at midnight, saying that she was taking a stroll with him and just chatting.

She went to his place a couple of times but she told me it was only for a short period of time, because he wanted to show her something. She is quite open about it, and she isn't hiding anything when I ask her about him. Is it something I should be worried ?


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Title My girlfriend spends too much time with this guy
Author throwawayfarway2
Upvotes 66
Comments 160
Date 09 August 2018 08:31 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/129788
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/95un6w/my_girlfriend_spends_too_much_time_with_this_guy/
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[–]Despacit0309 points310 points  (26 children) | Copy

Bruh you're getting cucked lol

[–]ppanthero158 points159 points  (19 children) | Copy

“He wanted to show her something“

😂

Sure he wanted to show her “something“...

[–]stylerTyler76 points77 points  (7 children) | Copy

Something that starts with D and ends with ick

[–]econquest62 points63 points  (2 children) | Copy

He's dyslexic? maybe she reads to him at the library.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

And a bed time story, naked in his bed.

"Once upon a Chad...."

[–]1atticusfinch197314 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

I want you to see my sinep. Works every time.

[–]Retstortion4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

His dock ?

[–]RaovacAAA 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

he's got a big deck.

[–]Retstortion1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is he gonna show OPs girlfriend his deck?

[–]bannedfromWTFmod-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

No dude you are totally fucking wrong.

It begins with Sport Fucking Moves and ends with That Will Fuck Her Brains Out.

[–]IrrelevantRaptor10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy

So I have a mattress called the Purple bed. https://purple.com/mattresses/purple-bed

I use this as an excuse for them to check out my bed. Something a long the lines of "so I have this purple bed, it feels really weird. do you want to check it out?"

I've bought so many girls home because of that haha

[–]BasketCase5591 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Would you recommend the bed?

[–]xddm26537 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

why don't we come check it out and decide for ourselves?

[–]BasketCase5591 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

TRP field trip

[–]IrrelevantRaptor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah dude it’s awesome!

[–]clausternn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

>tfw you live in brazil and can't buy a purple bed

[–]juliusstreicher6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

A penis IS "something" and I'll fight any man who says otherwise!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Mine isn't.

[–]juliusstreicher11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'll fight ALMOST any man who says otherwise!

[–]cenie3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Would this be considered a cockfight?

[–]thebigpapadragon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wanted to show her his massive boa constrictor called Big Dekka.

[–]wanker7171162 points163 points  (2 children) | Copy

go "spend time" with another girl then my dude

[–]Morphs_34 points35 points  (1 child) | Copy

Exactly this. OP has to apply some serious dreadgame to fix this situation. Any proper gf would serious limit the time spent with another guy for study.

[–]11-Eleven-1135 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's nothing to fix. The girl should be dead to him at this point.

[–]Batmanforreal277 points78 points  (4 children) | Copy

Youre trolling, right?

[–]NotMeAtAll2091 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Has to be

[–]c_w_o_o_l_l_y28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

He did everything short of just saying he found cum stains on her shirt when she got home. lol

"It could have been mine from a wet dream the night before right? Because she definitely won't let me touch her."

[–]Ruby_Red_Pill_Maker7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm pissed that we get soo many cuck threads up in here. I'm thinking about flipping the script and posting pimp related questions on asktrp, just to fuck with everyone.

[–]Radinax6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

He is trolling.

[–]showerdudes9 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Ask if she can record when she fucks him so you can sit home and jerk off to it since you seem to be fond of the cuckold lifestyle anyway

[–]cappadocianhawk18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Makes you wonder if OP is jerking off to porn at home while his ltr is getting railed in the library or park or that other dude's home.

[–]Andgelyo6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat57 points58 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your LTR is doomed. Not because of that guy, but because that girl's behavior reveals she takes you for granted.

So yeah, be worried. Does she fuck him? Does she line him up as the next branch to swing to? Is she just getting a beta on orbit for validation? Is she developing her options to soothe her ego? Doesn't matter really. What should worry you is that this girl feels that she has you on a leash.

[–]lnternetLiftingCoach42 points43 points  (0 children) | Copy

She knows what she is doing is crossing a huge boundary. Any idiot would know. Luckily, you know, or ought to know, what to do in this situation.

[–]work-then-play34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

What do you reckon?

[–]always_sad1225 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s ogre.

But seriously though it is. Sorry.

[–]All_fixed_again18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you have any girlfriends that you can "spend time with"? If so...do it. If she complains then you know that she understands what the bounderies are but chose to ignore them. She has no respect for your bounderies.

She is gone. She is trying to have her cake and eat it...keep You, the safe security blanket while also getting railed by another guy. Either that or she is already lining up plan b.

If she would rather spend the time with another man then you are not important to her.

Important: don't get and act butthurt, this shit happens and it could be an opportunty for you to break free and have a new start. Just ignore it, start planning your life without her..when you are ready...pull the trigger.

[–]person844525 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

He's fucking her in the ass.

[–]munirzamat6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

How cum ?

[–]juliusstreicher18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

Forget the very obvious "going to his place because he wanted to show her something". That in itself is a Deal Breaker. How about the "long evening walks...till midnight"???

If she's not fucking him, it's only because HE doesn't want to.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Underrated comment of the thread

[–]SpiderAlpha3316 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

NEXT.

[–]ordinarybots12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

[–]c_w_o_o_l_l_y8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Find out if he's gay first, and if he's not, you already know what to do. Dude, a girl isn't going to let a dude call her a bitch and a whore unless he's either gay or she wants him inside of her. I swear, I had to check if this post was a troll or not, but all of your other posts are about software stuff. So, I'm guessing not.

[–]satlinrabbow14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

she has been Riiiidiinnng hiis coock alll niiight.

No, seriously, she probably been swallowing his cum then coming home to kiss you when she gets back.

first of all, stop living with women,

second

keep lifting, or rather, lift more

third. . .

talk to other women.

[–]this_weeks_account210 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I almost hate to see this happen to a fellow guy, and OP seems like a nice kid.

You know how many girls I’ve fucked with boyfriends? A TON.

You’re getting played, and at the least, completely disrespected. Get out.

[–]Mangasbzo714 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

DONT demand she stop seeing him, that will just seem insecure and make the poosy dry up

If a girl ain't doing what you want, you withdraw TAR from her - time, attention & resources. Slowly cut her off and start spending your time with other ppl instead, ideally other bitches (hell, fuck other bitches if you want)

Eventually gf will clock on that you gone cold on her and ask why, and you tell her if she wanna spend every fucking day with random dude #1737382548 then cool, but you'll be out doing your own thing, and when she ready to act like good gf again she should holla at you.

AMUSED MASTERY + ABUNDANCE MENTALITY will take you far, buddy

[–]priapula5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

and you tell her if she wanna spend every fucking day with random dude #1737382548 then cool, but you'll be out doing your own thing

This could come off as jealous. I'd say don't bring up the guy but make it very clear

[–]Mangasbzo74 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Phrasing is important.

You don't say "I've been ignoring you bc you have been spending all your time with other guy", you say " you have been spending all your time with other dude, so whatever, not gonna sit around waiting for you, got my own life to live"

[–]xddm26532 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

you're right, but actions > words. Better to not verbalize that attitude

[–]ishyman9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Reverse the roles and she woulda left you in a heartbeat. Set your boundaries. If she crosses them , happens again, hard next

[–]fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck-6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

When a girl spends time with “some new guy,” it’s with her mouth wrapped around his dick. Every time. Without fail.

They’re not spending 8+ hours at a library. You’re just REALLY FUCKING STUPID.

Yeah. A stroll. If, by stroll, you mean he’s coming in her mouth and ass, then yes... a stroll.

Even if there weren’t sex involved (and you’re a stupid pussy if you believe that), she’s spending ALL HER TIME with him.

You’re just the literal cuck at this point who licks up the residual cum in her mouth when you kiss her.

She went to his place? LOL. Just for a short time, huh? “I only sucked his dick for like 10 seconds....”

This is as obvious as obvious gets, so you’re either trolling the sub, or you’re a LOW functioning autistic.

[–]account_rp8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's good that you're worried because you should be. She hangs out for hours at a time with this guy, goes to his place and comes back at midnight. Don't trust anything that she says about not getting another guy's dick.

If you really want to bother, hunt down some signs that she's cheating. Personally I recommend breaking up with her. It's best to wait until you have several other girls that you're fucking first, already having a girlfriend gives you preference in girls' pre-selection bias and makes things a lot easier.

[–]satlinrabbow4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I recommend breaking up with her. It's best to wait until you have several other girls that you're fucking first, already having a girlfriend gives you preference in girls' pre-selection bias and makes things a lot easier.

best answer here

[–]Fapisluv9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Trp: The forum where you will learn not to be a beta and spend too much time with a girl doing friend stuff while she has a boyfriend.

Asktrp: the forum where we ditch that thought, and if someone is spending a lot of time with a girl, he is banging her, and there is no chance for him to be in the friendzone.

[–]MrSittingBull0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

OP sounds like the beta imo.

[–]Oceansdrive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The other guy sounds like a massive orbiter though.

Its just how you interpret it.

[–]majorketone2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

next

[–]dandar46002 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They spend 8+ hours together in the local library, go for food together, some days comes back at midnight, saying that she was taking a stroll with him...She went to his place a couple of times

Sounds to me like they are dating.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like huge disrespect to me

[–]666mafioso2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a troll post lmao

[–]Peter_B_Long2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're completely blind. She is 100% cheating on you.

I've been on both ends. In high school I would spend all day with this girl that I was fucking. We would sneak out at night and hang out at school (her boyfriend went to a different school). She would tell her friends / boyfriend that me and her were just friends. Even when he went through her messages and saw that we were texting romantically, she still convinced him that I liked her but that she didn't like me. Girls are pros at hiding shit.

Then, in my last relationship, my ex would always hang out with the same group of friends (mostly guys). She would bring me along most of the time, but she would still be out late with them when I decided I didn't want to tag along. I was always a bit suspicious, but I never really had proof to accuse her of anything. I finally broke up with her, and occasionally she would pop up on social media from friends posts and she'd always be sitting next to one of the dudes from her friend group. Still don't have proof of anything but most likely she branch swung pretty quickly to him even though she claimed she was going to wait for me and it wouldn't surprise me if she cheated on me a few times, because I was a beta during the relationship.

The point is, girls are fucking experts at hiding things and you should definitely trust your gut instinct.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

It depends. She may be saying the truth. Msy be. But my modus operandi is trust but verify. The fact that she was in his place raises a huge red flag. Especially when she comes by midnight. Check her phone, emails etc. if you wanna continue the relationship.

After that, assuming you haven't found anything, tell her to stop seeing this guy. Just do not argue. Tell and forget. If she continues - next her. Jealousy is helluva drug which destroys relationships. It works on women well. But for men it is boner killer.

[–]Retstortion4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

She’s sucking his dick right before seeing you lol

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Kissing him without brushing her teeth.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

When you confront her about it please post what happened

[–]PR0JECT_XIII0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why do that when you can completely pull the rug out from underneath her? If she got home at midnight I'd be telling her to sleep on the couch with zero explanation.

If I was op I would be removing the shit he provides for her until she started to act appropriately. If it continued on the other hand, id change the locks.

[–]OfficerWade3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Time to move on. She’s not yours it’s just your turn.

[–]liberty11273 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

He wanted to show her that he powerfucks

[–]GolfinEagle2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao he wanted to show her his pogo stick.

[–]HumbleTrees2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro unless he is gay and you've seen him suck a cock, she's cucking you. Start seeing other women.

[–]I_am_Jax_account3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

This has to be a joke. You can't possibly think this is ok or that she's not cheating on you. You better end this shit immediately to retain some level of self-respect in her eyes if you ever want to get her back.

[–]__uwotm8__ 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Go through her phone and report your findings

[–]satlinrabbow11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

no. just dump her.

no need to go through her phone.

find another girl, maybe keep banging this one till you replace her. then suddenly drop her.

it would have been better if you didnt live with the bitch, thats just beyond stupid.

[–]chubz4you4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thats some beta shit.

[–]novatooo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

AWALT

[–]downvotesanimals1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is this a fucking joke?

[–]Alphalizard19901 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP sounds very beta, dude she is fucking him no doubt! NEXTTTTT!!

[–]sasquatch_pants1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She went to his place a couple of times but she told me it was only for a short period of time, because he wanted to show her something

Ya, show her his dick!

She's doing this because 1) She's a cheater and/OR 2) Your not giving the relationship what it needs to keep a woman interested.

The amount of time she has been spending with this guy already says it's too late. Walk away from her.

[–]dixieboyzspookyclub1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol nice bait

[–]AaronKClark1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They're fucking. I think sub-consciously you already know this, you're just afraid to admit it.

[–]romancesg1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My best advice is to go to sleep in front of a mirror tonight so you can wake up to yourself.

[–]lekkiplayboy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My favorite is to have her come to my place to charge her phone. I end up charging her with my Universal Serial Dick. works every single time. Dude move on.

[–]Plazma_doge1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am sorry for your loss. Acceptance is the first step. Trust your gut.

[–]1atticusfinch19732 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is this how her relationship with you started? Likely she's considering or already has branch swung. If he's spending that much time with her then he's more of a boyfriend than you are at this stage.

Yes, it's something you should be worried about if you want to keep her around. However, from the sounds of it you should be looking at other options yourself.

[–]Korque_32 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

the fuck kinda question is that she probably got that “something” in shoved in and out of her mouth dude. Either tell her to end it or leave it

[–]mrHappyPotatoe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Put that plate nicely back to shelf. Ghost.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have been the "this guy" before. They are either fucking or a cunt hair away from beginning to fuck.

[–]send_it_for_the_boys1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah she’s just taking her midnight stroll on his dick. Next her and go lift some weight.

[–]introvertp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Trust your gut. You know it doesn't feel right.

The guy is investing his time because he wants to hit, your girl is investing her time because she is interested. It's black and white like that sometimes. People don't spend 8 hours together unless they like each other's company or they're getting paid to.

[–]Tousen711 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is a troll. It’s too by-the-books cuck to be real.

[–]Ruby_Red_Pill_Maker0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

agree troll post

[–]AnonymousADC1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Dread game or next,but please,dont check her messages,if she spots you,she is going to tell that to everyone and that is going to fuck you hard,just have abundance mentality.

[–]AceroInoxidable0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

"She's going to tell that to everyone". Who the fuck cares? You shouldn't be so worried about what other people think of you.

[–]AnonymousADC0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I mean,if her friends (girls) have a bad opinion about him,it would be more hard to get them,but fuck it there are a lot of girls haha

[–]Gainznsuch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I had a toned down situation like this happen in high school to me. I broke it off with her and moved on with life. It sucked. Only thing I would probs do different is line up the next chick before I dropped the girl who was making a cuck out of me.

[–]Rares55550 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Break up with her. No questions asked.

[–]xxWildbeast13xx0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You have to be trolling

[–]fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck-1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree. After reading his replies, this guy is either a troll or the dumbest person in the remedial classes.

[–]justicecantakeanap0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not worried, but you should not invest any of your time and space with this specific girl.

[–]micr0penis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Eh. It's one thing if she has a guy friend that you hang out with as well and you're comfortable with. Not always, but can be.

This right here? This is bitch-town USA. You should have grown a spine and some self-respect from the start and told her this was a deal breaker, but you didn't. Guess what? You still need to grow a spine and break it off with her.

[–]dtyler860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Weather she’s actually ever actually fucked him (she has), it’s entirely disrespectful for her to even put you in this position. Dump her and dont look back. 99% chance they end up dating.

[–]jekporkins770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Time to say goodbye

[–]El_Serpiente_Roja0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Is this shit real? No wonder some of yall get cheated on

[–]Bedtimeshine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You either end it or you fight fire with fire. That is the only way to handle shady women if you want the behavior to stop and for your girl to respect. Talking won’t help. Talking out relationship problems is among the biggest wastes of time on this planet. It’s either “I don’t want to control you so I think it’s best if we end it.” No ultimatum, no conversation. Or you now give yourself permission to do what you want, when you want, with who ever you want. Spending time and getting close to other women is now completely ok for you yo do. And you should and be “quite open” about it.

[–]red_matrix0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't be a cuck! Hard next bro.

[–]SoulRedemption0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Whether she is cheating on you with this dude (we all know what the probabilities are), the minute you break up with her, she will be on his dick (if not "again"). Plausible deniability - A.K.A. Hamstering and the trickle truth

[–]redd_reality0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I know this hurts op.

My advice is to give yourself plenty of space from her. You need to stop caring about her to the point you feel it in your body. Where, when the idea of her with another man enters your head, you literaly shrugs your shoulders and say to yourself "meh, I don't give a fuck." At that point you can begin to focus on yourself truly and bring real happiness into your life.

I'd be willing to bet that is what she is wanting from you also. Three years is a long fucking time to be with someone at a young age and I bet your relationship is stunting both your individual growth; she just had the clarity and accompanying solopsism to run with it.

Take her direction and do as she is doing. Create space and make yourself happy on your own terms; not for her sake, but for yours. Love yourself that much.

[–]jkeegan1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

BRO...

[–]daytonbull900 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Trickle truth, she'll give you tiny bits of truth a little at a time, but never the whole truth. Hit you with the "WHAT, YOU DON'T TRUST ME?" Take it from someone who was cheated on 40+ times by a single girl, she's cheating on you bro.

She cheated on me for roughly months, very open about hanging out with every person she cheated on me with, gave me details of what they did that day to fool me into thinking she was loyal. She fucked 6 different dudes 40+ times, and gave me all the details besides the sexual shit, claiming she didn't do shit with any of them. A friend let me know she was making out with a guy she had been 'hanging out with' for close to a month, said guy didn't know I was in the picture, either. Just next her man, it's not worth it, she failed your screening, pre-marriage gf/bf relationships are a just a long job interview, if they say or do anything that makes you question their loyalty, you say 'sorry, but you're not qualified for this position' and keep searching. Simple as that.

[–]MisterDSTP0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

How/why do you know the details bro?!

[–]daytonbull900 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She told me after I dumped her.

[–]MisterDSTP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shes probably exzagerating to hurt you. But it's still likely.. either way FDB

[–]Yozki0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I cannot believe your girl thinks that's o.k., and you only tolerate that shit because society keeps pushing for us to think it's completely normal behavior, yet look at how women behave now... they're fucking disgusting

I seriously considered getting a divorce because my 1 year wife was chatting with a regular client (she sells photography equipment) in a friendly tone and I don't want to spend a second unnecessarily stressing over shit like that. (Never told her I was considering it, in case I decided against it, which I did).

[–]redpilledjoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

cuckoldry 101. you are fucked my guy just leave

[–]smirk_addict0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Troll post.

[–]DadOnDabs0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Is it already loose when you fuck?

[–]forsedditonlyyyy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The first you two had sex didn’t you say something along the line of come to my place i wanna show you or watch “something” with you

[–]waynebradysworld0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

An ltr should absolutely never spend any time alone with a man who isn't her partner.

Start finding new women

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Idk bro I am the friend that the girl hangs out with while the couple is ltr and long distance.

I respect her relationship and we are just good friends with nothing sexual so you don't need to just assume the worst.

[–]adeptintact0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes she's cheating on you. I had a similar situation years ago when I was in college. She would study in his dorm room and hang out with him a lot, supposedly a common friend. I ended up finding out a year later she was cheating with him the whole time. I was too blue pill back then. I should have known better.

[–]RylanBlackwood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When your game is good and a girl is besotted with you, she won't spend that amount of quality time with another man. Or less he is camp as Christmas (gay asf). Like if they were friends before you met then mebe but if they just met then some level of desire for you has decayed and she's nexting. Sorry mate might hurt like a cunt for a month or two but keep working out and emotions just disappear.

[–]BecomingChad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

All you senses and instict are screaming at you full blast that this is NOT ok and yet you are here on r/asktrp of all places asking us to hamster you into thinking this is common practice. How confused are you my guy?

[–]dopey930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lmao this thread is brutal. But please listen to all of it, OP

[–]sandal_on0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

From what I have read, I would tell you to ghost her completely if possible and forever. She disrespected you on a big scale and thus don't deserve any bye or why.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Break up with her if you care.

[–]epictetus_irl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve banged women with boyfriends at 5pm on a Wednesday. Get your head out of your ass. Get some self respect and dump her

[–]mabden0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

>he wanted to show her something.

His dick and how nice it would fit in her pussy.

>She is quite open about it, and she isn't hiding anything when I ask her about him.

Why should she, she is free to do whatever the fuck she wants.

> Is it something I should be worried ?

Why worry about the inevitable, your turn is over.

[–]djh8600 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just tell her to cut the shit. Instead she will dump you and you’ll be better off for it.

[–]anti_masyarakat-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just be cool about it. The questions is not her.

It's you. Do you have the audacity to cheat on her. If not, good. It's mean you respect your relationship and have integrity.

Just play along with her. Thinks positive side. And, focus more about your future. How's your work. Do you have ambition or anything you want to achieve in the life.

Don't waste your time thinking and pondering, about whatever she cheated on you or not.

Focus on yourself. Get your life in order. Have a dream. Plans things. Read book. Joins clubs. Make money rains.

Eventually, the truth will come out. And, just like I said. Play cool with it.

[–]2319Skew-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she's not fucking, I'd be amazed. I think this is a troll post but if it's not then look at this way. You're getting cucked. She's either banging or will be banging this guy. You sound like a beta to the core. Read the side bar, dump her for being disrespectful and crossing the boundaries and grow a pair.

Source: I'm that guy that's banging your kinda girl

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

you took the time to come here and ask because your gut is telling you something your head doesn't want to believe. listen to your gut.



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