Pre-trp I would drink heaps of alcohol get wasted, smoke, go out clubbing, waste my time, watch heaps of TV, play games etc, be a facebook/insta stalker, eat shit food, etc.. Now two years later (m27) I have changed a lot. I've stopped drinking completely, zero smoking, zero drugs, I gym 5 times per week, paleo diet, I read a lot in my spare time and work for this new company and making my way up.

I have begun reconnecting with many of my friends from uni/school and it seems socially we are very different. All of these friends from school/uni come from very well off families and have done very well for themselves, two are doctors, one is a lawyer and the other just got accepted into Harvard uni with a scholarship. These are all upper class all American white guys who are 6ft tall, fit and look good and make heaps of money. The thing is, their idea of having a good weekend and hanging out is going out, drinking and doing drugs hard (heaps of coke/mdma/acid) and partying. They can afford it, they get heaps of women and it seems all fun - but I can't bring myself to join them. I see people who do drugs as emotionally weak, brainwashed people who have no self control.

This is the catch, they are all come across really cool and confident, they are all kinda natural TRP, they are smart, ambitious as fuck, and always have hot girls partying with them. They want me to start hanging out with them but I just can't bring myself to doing hardcore drugs like that (I can afford it's just a principle). I know it's going to get to a point where they will stop inviting me and I will lose this group of friends all together - they already don't understand why I'm so against drugs (especially since my doctor friends think they know best).

I tried connecting with some other friends and family, but those guys are pretty much the same. It seems like everyone in my city who are semi - successful in their career (guys and girls) are into drugs and partying hard. It's very hard because I see how much girls my friends slay and now days it seems all the extremely hot girls are into drugs. It would be sooooo easy to just go down this path and get heaps of hot women (which is what I want) but I have this feeling it would be me falling to peer pressure and not doing what I believe in.

What happens now guys I need some perspective... Do I need to change? Are my values and beliefs holding me back from succeeding with women / in life as they are different to how society is now?