Have any of you felt guilty about and regretted a ONS because it seemed that the girl was developing feelings and hope really early? FWIW, I didn’t feel comfortable keeping it going. She said she was thinking about me and touching herself the days after our ONS when we weren’t messaging or talking. Yeah.

I do regret this particle situation because of the uneven expectations, and it’s really been getting me down the past week. Unless she’s a random drunk chick I meet in a club (better but not my style), I’m going to wait at least one date in the future. I need to know that we’re both clear and on the level about expectations before we do something.

So do any of you regret or try to avoid ONSs?

How do you do a safety check to make sure it’s safe or a good idea to have sex and not worry about mixed expectations or having her develop an unhealthy obsession as a result of not keeping expectations in check?

EDIT: Met this ONS on a dating app. Set date, had fun and then ONS.