Girl that dumped me reaching out, how to proceed?

[deleted] · 2018-08-28T00:22:46+00:00

She’s 17 and you’re 18? Treat her like a child because she is one.

If you enjoyed the pussy, say what you need to to say to meet again.

She might just be shit testing you.

If you have the patience for her bs... she sounds good for a NSA thing... she may need plausible deniability to make it work... so you’ll have to play her psyche a little bit to fit her script

wawakaka · 2018-08-28T00:33:03+00:00

At her age she is total flake and can go hot and cold like a borderline

Let her chase be there but not so available... NOT Beta

She still young though so she don't have a clue what she wants

Retstortion · 2018-08-28T00:07:47+00:00

Delete this thread and her text.

Morphs_ · 2018-08-28T06:48:26+00:00

She ends up texting me that she wants to "end things" as she's "too young for me" (I'm 18, she's 17) and that she had fun. I didn't say anything and fast forward a day later, she texts me "are you mad at me".

Ignore the "are you mad" text and reply that you had fun too. Leave it open, you could even add in a little detail of something you liked about her while fucking her. That may produce some more tingles with her.

By keeping it open, there's a good chance she'll reach out again when she's feeling horny. Remember that a women lives by her emotions.

clausternn · 2018-08-28T00:30:12+00:00

Lmao check the age of consent where you’re from, in most states in the US it’s 17 so you might be good

HombreDeJuevos · 2018-08-28T07:03:00+00:00

She is underage. Not worth it! Also you are paying attention way too much of what she says. Stay focused on your life purpose. Get more girls (18+). Do NOT get involved with relationship this young or you will regret it later. You are young, you have to upgrade yourself, thinking ahead of your future value, your future self. This is the thing that will ACTUALLY increase your value, not the shit what you can and cannot say.

Andorli · 2018-08-28T07:27:29+00:00

are you mad?

Why, did you do something?

bosshawg502 · 2018-08-28T09:50:47+00:00

At her age she barely even knows what planet she's on dude. Don't take nothing seriously and just say whatever she wants to hear until you get some again. No point in applying TRP heavy or game hard with a girl that young she knows jack shit take advantage of it. But don't take advantage of "her". Make sure she consents etc

lerossignol77 · 2018-08-28T17:10:06+00:00

She obviously texted that knowing she was cold before so that was on purpose. Like most girls, she’s just trying to play your emotions to see how invested you are. See how far she can go and what you’re gonna tolerate. The more you text her the more you play in her hand. Did you want a relationship with her? If not, you can keep her as a plate but never take her bait. Interact on your terms

Bedtimeshine · 2018-08-28T18:35:24+00:00

“End what?”

MattyAnon · 2018-08-28T13:33:04+00:00

"are you mad at me"

Urgh, hate this line. Girls cause problems and then demand you don't hate them for it.

She means "I just want to be friends" which means "no conflict from you".

I'd give it a day or two and just say "you're ok" and leave it at that - indicating there's no conflict but you're not interested/invested/whatever.

Title	Girl that dumped me reaching out, how to proceed?
Author	TheDarkRanger
Upvotes	18
Comments	19
Date	August 27, 2018 11:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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