Why do guys particularly my friends think it’s creepy to hook up, plate or LTR an 18-19 year old? How do I deal with this?

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September 6, 2018
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Currently 21 going to be 22 this coming year and just plated an 18 year old I met at a party. She is just starting her freshman year at an art school a few miles away from my college. I told some of my friends about her and they all think it’s super creepy that I’m “dating” an 18 year old which is obviously perfectly legal aged girl. They are all blue pilled as fuck and most have trouble getting laid. Could this be the reason why? One called me a pedophile and I’m preying on them. Not even joking. Others think its creepy. Should I just ignore them or tell them to fuck off? What’s the best course to deal with this.

Of course my few RP friends think it’s perfectly normal and are happy for me.


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Title Why do guys particularly my friends think it’s creepy to hook up, plate or LTR an 18-19 year old? How do I deal with this?
Author bigboxguy
Upvotes 62
Comments 135
Date 06 September 2018 09:39 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
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Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9dgt88/why_do_guys_particularly_my_friends_think_its/
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[–]MisplacedSanityP138 points139 points  (30 children) | Copy

Frame, say something like "Yeah, I just wait outside the high school for when school lets out looking for girls". Don't take lesser men too seriously. They want that 18 year old pussy just as bad as you do.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (23 children) | Copy

Good point. A guy in my fraternity hooked up with a high schooler at one of our parties last year. She was 18 but he still doesn’t hear the end of it. I’m sure they all would’ve jumped on the chance to fuck her too. Everyone basically said I would hook up with her if she was our age. Total bs. Lmao men are so brainwashed with crap these days. That’s a good line though.

[–]MisplacedSanityP19 points20 points  (12 children) | Copy

Jesus, I've never been in a frat, but I thought that was one of the few places left that was red pilled.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy

No not at all. Most of the guys are pretty pathetic and I’m in a top house. Idk if it’s our frat rule or school(I go to a big school but not known for parties so it could be that) rule but we aren’t allowed to leave with girls from parties. We’ve had to drop pledges for leaving with girls or them going upstairs to fuck girls. Pretty sad.

[–]blister33331 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy

You aren’t allowed to have sex? What kind of fascist bullshit is that?

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah I remember as a pledge they told us at our first party if we went upstairs for any reason or fucked any girls in the house we’d be dropped no questions. They said at the end of the party that everyone leaves in their own Uber’s. Our risk managers never told us why. I still don’t know after 3 years. Pretty fucking gay through. Obviously as an active you can go upstairs now but if you fuck a girl they can put you on probation and fine you. It might be more our chapter because I know the other good houses don’t operate quite like this.

[–]griz3lda1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Legal risk.

[–]NabroleonBonaparte19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

I disagree with the rule but from an organization perspective, they probably want to avoid all of that #metoo bullshit

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

That’s fucked I’m here to say it isn’t like that everywhere. I’m in a top frat very red pilled

[–]OMGtothemoon1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

What are you, Sigma Nu or some shit? That's gay AF. Us Kappa Sigs slayed.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Sigma chi at a west coast school. As you know most have the same rep. We’ve had the exclusive goody good pretty boy imagine at school forever.

[–]OMGtothemoon0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Sigmachi as we call them at NC State are third best. Mostly Charlotte boys, yes pretty boy image but I'd have thought they have balls. At least back in 2005 they did.

[–]ahackercalled4chan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

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[–]theubernoob 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

It's a defense mechanism and/or crab in a bucket mentality.

Whenever anyone gives you any shit for anything, you shouldn't take it at face value, but ask why are they giving you shit.

There is a social stigma for older men going after younger women and you're breaking it. They're jealous that you've broken "the rules" and they don't have the balls to do so, so they give you shit to try to bring you back down to them.

This happens whenever you try to break out of the social norms:

Spend a year solo traveling? That's too dangerous bro

Getting jacked? Why do you waste so much time at the gym bro

Starting your own company? You're gonna go bankrupt and lose all your money bro

Breaking free does take risk, and it scares people, and when people see someone else breaking free they get jealous and envious and they want to pull you back down to their level. You might get kidnapped or stabbed or contract some crazy disease while traveling the world. The gym takes time and effort and raises your social standing making competitors more adverse to you. You could lose all your money starting a company and it might not work out. But it's all worth the risk (depending on who you ask) because what else are you going to do? Work your 9-5 living paycheck to paycheck in debt on your sweet vehicle you only use to commute to work and drive home drunk on the Friday and Saturday nights you spend with the boys getting drunk and accomplishing nothing? I left that life, broke free, and life has been pretty great since doing so.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

I noticed once I started raising my SMV people started getting way more hostile towards me. Especially guys I know and sadly friends. Guys try to cockblock me more. Guys have said I’m creepy and aggressive because I hook up with girls.

Going to the gym took me from a 2 handicap golfer to a scratch golfer. The captain of our team has tried to discount it saying I’m lucky. He’s just worried that I’m better than him now. Which I am.

I’m not that natural alpha high smv guy that I am now. When you make meteoric rise like I have, guys who used to be in a similar spot will do everything to discredit what you’ve done.

[–]theubernoob 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Take it easy on them though, they simply don't know. You wouldn't walk into a kindergarten classroom punting kids and proclaiming your dominance.

Be good to those around you because you'll help them, which helps you, and also it just makes them look more of an asshole when they're being an asshole because that's what they are at that point in time and hopefully they'll realize it and become better themselves.

[–]xlithernigga2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

They just messing around lol. My friend dated a freshman and we bagged on him but no one is actually serious about it lol.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

I’d say half are joking but the other half are dead serious. The really serious ones are guys I’m planning on cutting once school starts anyways.

[–]xlithernigga2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I honestly could never see anyone being really serious about this. Especially if they are party people. Straight edge maybe not but idk. That just seems wierd. I’d cut them off. They don’t seem like very fun people to take it so serious.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah idk man. People are batshit crazy in 2018.

[–]xlithernigga0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus that shit wierd as fuck man

[–]Andgelyo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your friends are trying to be white knights to look good for society, but we all know those dogs who jump at her the first chance they get lmao

[–]Clevername12340 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

22 dating 18 is pretty normal.

It's pretty fucking weird how many guys here brag about banging 18 yo when they are 40 something. I like banging em too but lets be real: they are children who happen to be legal to fuck.

[–]THEMANWHOWASRIGHT7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

All women are children who happen to be legal to fuck.

I said women you disgusting pedo, not 17 or less

[–]Clevername12340 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Cute, but we both know that 18 year olds and 28 year olds are different.

But kudos if you never feel weird banging girls who are seniors in high school as an adult man

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lulz. Get out of here with that faggot homo blue pill shit.

[–]endertheend 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Reported for moralizing.

[–]griz3lda1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not moralizing, you're butthurt that someone doesn't have the same taste as you. They're too young for him. Move on.

[–]StrifePrevails80 points81 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just ignore them. You're not going after children, these are adults that know what they're doing. No doubt, if a hot 19 year old showed interest in them, the story would change. Keep winning

[–]Xoramung 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

I told some of my friends about her

Stop talking about it. Easy fix man.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah I did. I was pretty casual about it. It’s just because a few were with me at the party and asked about her the next day. They keep bringing it up now.

[–]Xoramung 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

these are not your friends. i wouldn't even talk to these people about anything anymore. Potential to ruin things for you.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s the crab bucket mentality in action.

[–]Glowv290 points91 points  (1 child) | Copy

You explained it yourself buddy. Jealous , blue pilled betas. You go out and you feast, creepy lil fucker

[–]SilkTouchm20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

Should I just ignore them or tell them to fuck off?

Ignore and next them.

[–]bidric17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't see how that's weird? You're fucking 21, are you supposed to date 20 yo girls exclusively? wtf

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Beta upbringing and jealousy. It's that simple.

[–]RedSkeller13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude I'm in my 30s and I tell my friends about the 20 year olds I bang and they look at me with wonder. Suddenly around their girlfriends or a female audience this becomes 'creepy'.

[–]Iwantmypasswordback10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jealous. It’s college man, do every chick kn sight

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

in hs I always thought the older guys hooking up with girls in my grade were lame bc it typically meant they couldn't get girls their own age. this spilled over into early 20s..i'm now 27 and if you think i'm fucking/dating a girl over 23yo lmaooo

[–]OMGtothemoon21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude I'm 36 and plate 18 yr olds all the time. Fuck the haters, you're balls deep in 18yo snatch.

[–]MakoShark938 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

LMAO, do you ever think sometimes that you were their age when they were born?

[–]SteveStJohn5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

> I told some of my friends about her

Are you looking for validation?

[–]BuckNekkid184 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

21 year old hooking up with an 18 year old isn't weird at all. I'm 24 and have 2 plates that are 18 and 19 respectively.

[–]omega_dawg935 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

tell them to STFU and stop watching "barely legal" porn where the girls are 18 & 19 yrs old.

parents have 364 days + 1 more day to get their kids ready for adult life at 18. after 18, the kid's gloves come off and they're set-out into the real world where 'wolves' & gold-diggers exist.

18 yr old men are taking bullets defending this country and your friends are worried about local 18 yr olds taking cock.

OP, pull your unit out and get to work.

[–]ReddJive4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why do you care what they think?

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I don’t really care that much. It’s more a reputation thing.

[–]ReddJive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're lying to yourself. Which is it?

[–]TonytheNetworker3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

To be completely blunt, I think it's a facade. If any of the pathetic betas had a chance to pound some fresh 18-year-old pussy they would not hesitate. They are full of shit because they would do the same exact thing if given the opportunity so they are being haters and calling you a creep as a way of projection.

[–]RandomTRPan0n4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore them.

Okcupid proved men of all ages prefer 18 to 21 yo women.

It's just BP programming

[–]__uwotm8__8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

There is absolutely nothing wrong with plating 18 year olds at 21. Is this a joke? I’ve had a 19 year old plate at 30, approaching 31. Granted I wouldn’t flaunt it openly to everyone, but none of my close friends saw this as creepy, if anything they were a little jealous. Sure they made jokes but that’s just friendly banter.

[–]plenty_of_eesh3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had a 19 year old plate at 45. Yeah I kept that on the DL pretty well.

Also... Don't forget to check their ID!

[–]1Quaternionz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 29 and I'm plating a 20 year old. Just ignore it and laugh it off. There's no logic to this shaming convention, nor even a coherent philosophy. You can't argue against its tenants, because there aren't any. It's just fear and jealousy.

Men are jealous. You know they'll be going home later that night to jerk off to porn where the girls are 18-21. You know they'd go for it if they could press a button and make a horny 18 year old appear and want to fuck them.

Women are terrified to admit that something like 80% of their dating market value is determined by their youth and physical appearance. You know they'd go for it if they could press a button and be the flawless 19 year old hot girl again.

If someone gives you shit just agree and amplify like everyone else is suggesting.

"Oh, well, you know, I actually prefer them at 17, but 18 is safer."

"Don't worry, I always check their IDs first."

"Yeah, she's the 5th one I've bagged this month. They're just throwing themselves at me lately, not much I can do about it."

If you really feel like arguing about it logically then tell your beta and feminist friends to go and actually ask a 19 year old why she likes dating older guys. I've had multiple young women share their feelings on this subject with me spontaneously. It's always the same story. "I can't stand dating guys my age. They're such immature little babies. They're not men yet. That's why I like dating you. You're a man and not a little boy. You don't send me pages of crazy text messages, you don't get emotional, sex with you is actually good, you have money and can take care of me, etc... etc..."

Tell that to a single 30 year old feminist friend over drinks sometime, and then show her pictures of the 19 year old hottie you're banging. She might just start crying right there in front of you when she realizes how fucked she is. She wants the same things the 19 year old wants. She's just a little girl inside too. But now she's too old and irrelevant to attract any good quality men who will genuinely meet those needs for her.

[–]anti_masyarakat9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you don't fuck em somebody else will

That's what happens. Kids get wasted. Bunch of pervert takes advantage of her.

You are doing her a favour. Not letting her do bad decisions.

She will look up to you. Like a light house.

Every boyfriend she had after this will based on you.

To begin with, 13 year old kids already lose their virginity and have bunch of people inside her, hell some even have a daddy and already experienced pet play and gang bang.

So, like I said, you are doing her a favour. Unless, you the one who want to corrupted her.

[–]BeklagenswertWiesel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They are all blue pilled as fuck and most have trouble getting laid.

you answered your own question.

edit: for formatting

[–]F_Dingo2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell them to screw off. Make sure you stay above 18 though or you can find yourself on the sex offender registry.

[–]therymancruise2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm almost 30 and it's rare for me to sleep with a girl who can legally buy a drink. My last 3 girlfriends were 18, 19, 20. I learned that the YOUR perception of it is the signal to everyone else. If you act like it's creepy, and you're sheepish and embarrassed, people will pile onto you. If you're shameless, people will be jealous instead. My go-to line now is to shrug and say: "I like em young."

[–]friendandadvisor2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

WTF are you hanging around these fucking faggots??

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Guys in my fraternity and guys in the gold team with me. After I graduate I’m cutting contact with most of them. I’m spending some time my senior year meeting new solid people.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

After I graduate I’m cutting contact with all of them.

FTFY. Otherwise, you're doing great.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah that’s good. I only have one true friend from college. I’m a pretty popular guy and always have been but I feel like guys only want to be my friend because I’m in a cool frat and play D1 golf so they think I can provide good parties and connections. Is this my fault or are most guys just completely worthless leaches?

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

99% are worthless leeches. The other 1% are made up of 99% cool guys that are primarily, instead of only, looking out for themselves.

[–]xlithernigga2 points3 points  (11 children) | Copy

They very much just playing around lol. If they serious they super insecure and closeted individuals.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy

Half are joking and I don’t care. It’s the serious ones I care about. One of guys in my house hooked up with another’s oneitis and the oneitis kid went around saying he sexually assaults girls. Not even joking.

[–]xlithernigga1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

Who tf are these people. I’m curious as to what state your in cause I could never see this happening in California.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (8 children) | Copy

Yeah SoCal. It’s what happens when you put a bunch of rich entitled kids in a fraternity with issues.

[–]xlithernigga0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

These are frat kids saying this? I’m starting my first year of college and I thought frats were supposed to be the chad and red pilled places.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy

There’s always a few bad apples. There is 150 guys in my chapter. Im cool or good friends with about 100 of them. 40 I barely know and 10 have serious issues and no business being in a house.

Frats in 2018 are no longer the red pill and Chad places. At the bigger party schools it is more inclined to be more red pilled and you can have more fun.

Did school just start for you or you on the quarter system?

[–]xlithernigga1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

I’m going to cal poly which seems like a pretty large party school. I start in about a week. I’ve been talking to a lot of people in the frats there and they seem to enjoy them but I guess with 150 kids there is gonna be annoying people.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah the Greek system is much better there than at my school. You’ll have a good time there. Girls are very snobby though. Definitely some bad apples.

If lambda still is doing rush check them out Also delta chi phi psi sigma nu and zbt

[–]xlithernigga0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yea I think they are unsuspended after the blackface thing. People I talked to said they were the best.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah it’s filled with guys from my hometown. Definitely the best house. Really selective though. Focus on getting to know the guys and being cool. There will be a lot of losers and tools rushing them.

[–]sehns6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

Meanwhile the 18 y/o's are like: https://i.imgur.com/Pp15Mb1.jpg nsfw

[–]TigerXtrm9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well shit, talk about risky click of the day dude. Do we do NSFW tags around here? We need NSFW tags...

[–]sehns8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair play, tagged it

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its really because at 18 your still considered a dumb fuck so people see it as taking advantage of a younger person. Just think about how much your own thoughts have changed since you were 18, and your only 3 years older. Anyway there's nothing really wrong with it, if she was guna hoe out she would do it with someone else either way.

[–]_Last_Man_Standing_4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

tell them to fuck off...
the usual formula for "moral" age differences goes like this
your age / by 2 + 7 = moral
or for your case 21/2+7=17.5

your in the clear by any measure... ;)

edit:
100 years ago this was actually the formula to find "ideal" age of a girl you are abut to marry...
but lately it became the "bottom limit" of moral age...
so 100 years ago she would be half a year too old for you... ideally...

[–]Mr-Ed2091 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your friends are idiots. 4-5 years is an optimum age gap if you're going to LTR. It puts you in a position to have your shit together, compared to her.

Obviously thinking too far ahead, but if the relationship is to go the distance it also gives you much more time before the kids/marriage dilemma surfaces.

[–]RP_781 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get used to it, I'm 39 and when I go out with a 20 something I still get strange looks. /s

[–]JustSatan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

JEALOUSY.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You smash, they don’t, they mad.

[–]lampshade28181 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

If you're in college, it's nothing. Do you think any junior/senior on a college campus has ever thought, "Man, I want to hook up with that freshman, but she's way to young."? In college everyone is basically the same age, except some can go to bars and some can't. Now if you were in your 40's that would be a different story.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

why would it be a different story?

they're still legal at 18, and if a 40 yr old can game his way into the pussy, why is it an issue?

the younger men in this area act more feminine than the women... resulting in these very young girls seeking masculinity; they even overtly say it.

it's not hard to bang these young girls... the young guys aren't doing it.

[–]lampshade28181 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

If the "Legality" thing is your mindset that's cool for you. I was just thinking that your average 40+ year old guy and your average 18 year old girl don't really have much in common. Different places in life, different paths, etc. If I had an 18 year old daughter and she brought home some 45 year old guy who is obviously looking to bang her I would not be happy. That's just me. I encourage all the 40+ year old guys out there to start cruising the freshman at their local college.

[–]omega_dawg933 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

you think girls at that age are looking for LTR's from men that are that old? i'll answer for you... "hell no." what has happened is that an older guy has given her the tingles... and she wants to (and has the right to) act on her urges.

bottom line: at 18, females are considered adults, and they can do whatever they want with their bodies without parental consent. the end. girls are doing porn at 18 just like girls and boys are voting at 18 and taking bullets in the military at 18.

if you raised your daughter in a way such that she brings a 45 yr old man home with the intent of having an LTR, YOU need to look in the mirror as a parent before you criticize her decision.

[–]lampshade28181 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I respect your opinion. I don't even have a daughter. I was just thinking ahead. You do you, I'll do me. It will all work out just fine.

[–]omega_dawg932 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

it's really not about you or me. i respect your opinion as well, but you can save yourself a lot of wasted energy by letting ADULTS be ADULTS and letting them make their own choices. iow, i stay out of the business of anyone over 18. yes, they're young, but they're grown & legal.
older guys are appealing to young women. looking at the girl or the guy with any judgment isn't right (imo) because it's really not anyone's business but theirs.

[–]sandal_on1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude, the issue is that people use the same reasoning ("what's the issue if a 45yo man bangs a 18yo girl) as pedophiles to justify lowering the bar.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

lowering what bar? why is the word,"pedophile," even spoken when both consenting people are adults?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm 24 and I almost exclusively date 18-21yos, but I live in Colombia right now. In the USA usually 19-24. Tighter pussy, way less demanding for drinks and eating out (which is bullshit I don't participate in anyways) Why the fuck would I pay for some unhealthy food and alcohol to fuck some worn out girl when I can uber over an 18yo to my house who doesn't drink or do drugs.

One called me a pedophile and I’m preying on them.

They're jealous of the tight pussy.

that I’m “dating” an 18 year old

If you are dating very serious, it is kinda weird, just keep them a plate.

Who gives a fuck what your friends think? Are they friends or just people who annoy you?

[–]SynfulVisions2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

But... you're 21? The fuck?

I mean, I got some pushback at 30+ dating a string of 18-19 year olds... but damn.

[–]criveros0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I’m 31 and I hook up with 18 year olds. It’s normal.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Very normal and perfectly fine. For the sake of it though if this was my situation I’d be quiet about it.

[–]criveros0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m pretty open about it, with family, friends, and even some coworkers.

[–]Jsieijejeieokkd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bang and repeat

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your friends - so young and already brainwashed by feminist magazines. Let them be.

[–]Dymatizeee0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

They're jealous of your success. I'll bet money they'll do the same shit if given the opportunity.

[–]sternje 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Cuz they want to, too. Have your plate bring a friend or two, your buddies will forgive you.

[–]chicityt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Age differences are adored though?

[–]oytrp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just agree and amplify.

Where I'm from, friends fuck with and make fun of each other. I would probably make the same jokes, even though I would certainly bang an 18 year old.

So maybe they are just fucking with you, maybe they are legitimately appalled, maybe they are jealous. Doesn't matter. Just don't care what they think.

[–]breakfastburrito240 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Leonardo DiCaprio

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Gets called creepy all the time. Go read comments whenever there are stories about him and his gf. Sad but she’s legal.

[–]breakfastburrito240 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

As long as he keeps it legal. But he doesn't give a fuck and no one can do anything about it, so he's still happily getting what he wants.

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah I agree. I hate his politics but respect his game.

[–]breakfastburrito240 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup, and he's not going to lose work over it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They are all blue pilled as fuck and most have trouble getting laid.

You just answered your own question bro haha.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Age seems like a much bigger deal when you’re younger.

[–]imtheoneimmortal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i date with 16yrs old and they say care about to go to jail
"it would be nice so i can make many albums"

[–]momomotorboat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How do I deal with this?

You don't. Fuck what they think.

[–]Kabuki4310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well at 37 i have plates between 18 and 22 and i get the cradle robber look from older (late 20s) women all the time. U know hit the wall and stuff.

[–]Self-honest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore them. They're just jealous.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I opened this post expecting you to say you were in your 40's or something but 21???

College seniors fuck freshmen girls all the god damn time.

What jealous retards...

[–]sandal_on0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

18-19 and younger girls are no doubt the easiest to manage and catch. Yeah, they probably are shaming you because of jealousy, would be less probably if you were older though.

Yeah it is perfectly legal (18), and 13 is also perfectly legal age in other countries. Doesn't mean the laws are pillar of right and wrong.

[–]redrogue120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't tell my friends about my plates.

[–]MrAnderzon 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

This is the answer your looking for from the movie Dazed and Confused.

Brush it off or ignore their statement. Don't take anyone's opinion seriously unless you're willing to trade places with them.

https://youtu.be/wknywxfcE5M

[–]Throwaway-2424240 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sour grapes mostly.

[–]Str8_Pillin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Social conditioning.
The girls they hang around with don't like it because they can't compete forever. They don't want guys to know that they can trade in their lease for something brand new every couple of years. Its advantageous to them to train BPs to think that its "creepy" in order to keep their stability.
The guys adopt this mentality because they think agreeable = pussy, and they don't know how to shut it off when they're around only guys.

[–]punchyson0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I love High School girls, I keep getting older but they stay the same age....

Name that truth

[–]8700nonK0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well, 18 is still in high school, so probably that's why. After college things tend to equalize more. I remember in high school dating outside of it (so older dudes) was seen as a big deal and unusual (in a bad way), even though the age difference wasn't that big. A 30 guy dating a 22 is seen as perfectly normal, so you just need to wait some years..

[–]PS2Errol0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They are jealous.

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Crab bucket. Guys be jelly of you, girls be self conscious about their age

P.S. These 'friends' are not your friends

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

I’m well aware they aren’t friends. They are guys in my fraternity or guys on the golf team with me. I won’t really talk to them after I graduate.

[–]Zanford-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

Well you called them friends so maybe part of you isn't aware

If they can't handle the truth, don't talk about your personal life with 'em

[–]bigboxguy 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

I have a lot of “friends.” I only have two true friends at school who have my back. Rest are guys I’m connected with.

[–]Hitchens920 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

[–]Zanford-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Awww look I have a homophobic stalker. Who likes to link to himself and his own homophobia as a source!

You really are a special kind of stupid

[–]Hitchens920 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Awww look I have a homophobic stalker.

If I’m homophobic then address where I made a homophobic statement.

Otherwise it’s just more trolling.

Who likes to link to himself and his own homophobia as a source!

You really are a special kind of stupid

Everyone can read my comment and see that it wasn’t homophobic and that you didn’t even address it.

It’s funny how you guys think you control the narrative. We KNOW you are trolling. Your attempts to shrug it off only make it more obvious haha.

[–]flatbushwick-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

After 12 it’s lunch



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