The title basically says it all. I went to university last week and so far my social contacts are growing so fast because of everything I've learned during my terrible time at high school. As do social contacts with women. I was definitely flirting with some girls, but just now, something I definitely didn't expect happened.
I had just asked in a chat if there is some place I could leave my bags, because I'll have to bring 3 with me to university and it's not very fun and possible to walk around with those all day. Totally at random, this girl I probably talked to like once texted me asking if I had taken care of it already. I talked to her I guess twice, no flirting or whatever and I didn't have any connection with her, just fun to talk to. She's 2-3 years older than me (not sure). I asked her what she meant, because I knew that if she was asking about those bags, she's basically inviting me over to sleep that night.
And as a matter of fact, she did.
Now I have learned abundance mentality and all, since many other things are more important than worrying about women and lately I usually understand what a girl actually means when she behaves in a certain way. But this, this randomness, this is new. Partly due to my terrible time in high school I'm still a virgin, but I'm also only 18 years old. I don't know what's happening but if this is it, I want to fucking go with it. But that could definitely turn out super awkward.
To be honest I'm not even sure what I'm asking for anymore, but can anyone give some advice/shed some light on this? I'd be very grateful. I'm just overthinking this massively and maybe someone else's advice can help me out.
P.S. She added me to a yearclub (since we're in the same student association) and told me she and her friend added me because someone else in that group said I was fun to hang out with. Yeah no
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