How do beta males ever get sex?

The__Tren__Train · 2018-09-17T03:18:46+00:00

there are a lot of unattractive girls out there..

and a lot of somewhat attractive girls with very poor self concepts

[deleted] · 2018-09-17T04:59:02+00:00

Lots of people are getting lucky. Beta males will become friends with a girl and eventually establish some attraction.

no one here is claiming beta males never have sex

They just get it less often and definitely less enthusiastically. If you want her to fuck you like a porn star (anal, BJs for days, whatever other junk) you’ll need to use alpha strategy.

Betas might get into relationships serially even and get laid like that. But they don’t have women a phone call away lined up to fuck.

dark_rabbit · 2018-09-17T04:20:36+00:00

They end up with someone that’s needy and loves the fact they can get anything they want. And they stay in the relationship even though their SO is terrible.

Also, they don’t.

[deleted] · 2018-09-17T07:35:09+00:00

Some (even some attractive) women like a vulnerable guy they can be a mom to. See Back to the Future, how Marty's mom and dad get together in the original timeline, that's actually pretty true to life IME.

some (mostly screwed up) women like a guy who is way below them in SMV (assuming hypergamy makes most women in LTRs feel a little above their man, but this is another level) because they need the upper hand, because they've been messed around by hotter guys, etc.

[deleted] · 2018-09-17T04:09:23+00:00

Petty sex

MisterRoid · 2018-09-17T06:23:50+00:00

Betas get laid, but the quality of the sex they get is often poor. For example, a friend of one of my friends is a beta, and he had to use condoms in a LTR of ~4 years. It's normal for girls to demand betas to use condoms, while Chads gets to rawdog and finish in the pussy.

Bruchibre · 2018-09-17T09:48:34+00:00

Dude, stop wanking in front of the mirror and hating on betas.

SenorSwole · 2018-09-17T23:15:53+00:00

There’s no one scenario. It can happen for many reasons. But the sex is usually not something that the girls are super enthusiastic about and a lot of the times it’s transactional.

Title	How do beta males ever get sex?
Author	Theguygotgame777
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Comments	13
Date	September 17, 2018 3:04 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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