I went through my teenage and early twenties looking for a male role model. With my father, blue pill as fuck, a doormat, overweight, lazy etc, I lacked it severely.

My father once told me to buy flowers for girls all that bollocks.

However, I lacked one real alpha male confident role model. Jose Mourinho is that person. You don't even need to know much about soccer to admire this man. He breeds success. He's a winner. He is the one man I seriously look up to.

Ofcourse you can look anywhere for a role model but for me he oozes with charisma, charm and self belief. Here's his wikipedia;

"José Mário dos Santos Mourinho Félix, OIH, known as José Mourinho (Portuguese pronunciation: [ʒuˈzɛ moˈɾiɲu], born 26 January 1963), is a Portuguese football manager and former football player, who is the current manager of Chelsea.[2] He is regarded by some to be the world's best manager and one of the greatest of all time"

His quotes are some that I still look at although applied to soccer, yet can be translated to real life;

“I am Jose Mourinho and I don’t change. I arrive with all my qualities and my defects.” – When he was unveiled as the new Real Madrid manager in 2010.

“We want to follow a dream, yes, it’s true, but one thing is to follow the dream, another thing is to follow an obsession… and this is not an obsession, it’s just a dream.”

“Look, we’re not entertaining? I don’t care; we win.” – on Chelsea’s performance at the start of the 2006-07 season

“I’m not a defender of old or new football managers. I believe in good ones and bad ones, those that achieve success and those that don’t. Please don’t call me arrogant, but I’m European champion and I think I’m a special one.”

His self belief is astonishing. He destabalizes his opponents with very intelligent mind games. He never relaxes, he's always thinking. He can never be gotten to.

He is my inspiration, and I apply his methods and psychology to the state of women today. Women are just a mess, but being a strong confident leader, you think even an ounce like this guy, and to quote him "you cannot lose." If you do, you'll win the next one.

Be a winner like Mourinho.

EDIT: Mourinho documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFdAd6nqQ9Y