I’ve met a girl last month in an airport and got her contact. Last weekend, she was in town and I arranged a meetup. She’s 20, a typical hormonal airhead. Has an Instagram with a couple thousand followers.
Sex was great, had good chats. She wanted me to sleep over but I can’t due to logistics. She cried, threw a fit, but calmed down and kissed me goodnight as I left.
Next day, asked her out, she was busy, went to meet other girls.
Day after, I asked to go see her again. She gave me a million shit tests like ‘no’, ‘I’m busy’, ‘you’ll make me cry again’. Miraculously arranged a meet. Sexed and movies. Again I couldn’t stay over, and she said something along the lines of ‘fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me’. She’s mad I’m not sleeping over. She calmed down, kissed me goodbye.
Following day, I was busy and forgot about her.
Next day, found out I was blocked. Sent her a ‘caring’ message, she unblocked me. I called her, vibes were good. She told me she’s leaving and we can meet when she’s back (she said she’ll be back in a week or two). Then she randomly says ‘you’re so full of shit’ and turns back cold. So I made plans with another.
Today, I confirm with her that she’s really out of town, and she is. She posts a pretty depressed looking selfie on IG. I ask her when she’s back, she immediately replies ‘idk’, then ‘I don’t want to see you anymore’. I have not replied.
I know she’s a nut job, but I want to fuck her again. Please advise.
I feel this is her trying to get my attention, by acting salty and emotional. She thinks I’ve pumped and dumped her. However, she’s clearly not a ‘church girl’ and is riding the CC. She has many orbiters. I feel (AWALT) she wants the alpha, and is LMR.
I don’t want to fall into the trap of being beta, but if I don’t she won’t even tell me when she’s back.
Was I ‘too alpha’ here? Or is this all a shtick to guilt me into giving her attention.
What should I reply/text to her?
TL;DR - Fucked a girl a few times, never slept over. She mad/sad. What to do.
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