https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9kihvy/once_youve_got_a_plate_then_what

Previous post.

Last night I told her that I wanted to spend time actually like being able to lay together and watch tv or movies and shit. To me I really enjoy that after sex... just like holding a girl and her laying on my chest and that sappy kinda shit.

Anyways, earlier that day I decided to plan for her the evening... I told her id pick her up after she got off at 6, we'd go shopping for sat's events clothes, then meet her co-workers @ dave and busters at 830.

Talking to her on the phone yesterday I find out 2 things 1) she just drops into the conversation shes gotta meet he rfriend after work and pick up boxes and she diesnt know how long they will "chit chat" (which to me seems she is going back on the plan I put out there for her and she didnt exaclty say yes that works... but she went with it) and 2) she doesnt have work until 2pm the next day. I asked her what she thought about heading to my place after dave and busters... to which she replied "we'll see". To me I was like uh... wtf do you mean we'll see? Like I see this as a shit test no?

Ive got some options here...

Should I just basically cancel out on picking her up and say hey ill just meet you there... showing indifference to her half ass letting me know she might not be able to go get our sat attire

And should I after being at dave and busters just drive her home, no mention of going back to my place and then go out downtown with my friends and let her see my snapchat story of me having a great time with other girls ect... evoking some competition anxiety? And if she asks about me not going to my house just being like, well you didnt really say you wanted to go back so I went ahead and made other plans, sorry.

Edit: in fairness, she pays for her self for everything and also really wanted to be sure even if her coworkers cancel on going I would still go because she really wanted to have fun together... shes just got some hang up about sex/places sex could occur... despite having had sex before twice.