Over the summer a woman at my old job started texting me a lot, flirty, bikini pics etc. Told me her husband is a controlling asshole etc. I’d ask her if there was anything I could do to help (Hint hint) and she said no, but the flirting continued. She said I couldn’t handle her etc. I’d suggest to hang out but she said it’s impossible to leave the house (i know he was verbally abusive, maybe physically as well? Idk)

She filed for divorce and the house is up for sale. We got lunch and flirted and it was fun. She still lives with him and she said it’s “world war 3” at her house. Defiantly some kino but wouldn’t let me kiss her on the mouth.

I’m wondering if I should have struck when it was hot over the summer? But she pretty much refused to meet/said she couldnt.

Over the aforementioned lunch she seemed open to hanging out over Halloween, so just make a move then?

I know she’s genuinely stressed and busy (divorce, kids plus her normal job) so I don’t want to be her beta texter.