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Why do girls in relationships on social media looks like they’re single?

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October 20, 2018
154 upvotes

For example, they have pics with just their girlfriends/sorority girls. Maybe one picture out of 100 with there boyfriend. But then you go over to the soy boy beta cucks social media page and every picture is with that same girl. Give me a rationale.


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Title Why do girls in relationships on social media looks like they’re single?
Author AmazonAlphaMale
Upvotes 154
Comments 63
Date 20 October 2018 12:49 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/135176
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9ppqax/why_do_girls_in_relationships_on_social_media/
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[–]HurricaneHugues281 points282 points  (17 children) | Copy

Because they are single, except in the mind of their "boyfriends"

[–]BurnieSlander51 points52 points  (0 children) | Copy

knowledge.

[–]omega_dawg9337 points38 points  (3 children) | Copy

they play the field just like we do. most just like to play within the comfort of a relationship.

branch swinging: they wrap those branches in either condoms or velvet... for fucking and for comfort, respectively.

but they do branch swing... bc hypergamy.

[–]VolatileEnemy1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Okay call me crazy but I've even seen hypergamy and attempts to look for suitors from the comfort of no relationship and no sexual experience. Isn't that weird? Or maybe a sign of anxiety? I don't know.

Women are weird.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

it's built in... it is what it is. they don't know what they're doing; they are just programmed to do it.

men just need to be aware of it.

[–]VolatileEnemy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think it's like that hamster that just kinda feels a certain way and is in a certain mood and the stars align and she's ovulating, and then she's like ok cool i'll do something with this guy... Otherwise it's netflix all day.

[–]11-Eleven-115 points6 points  (8 children) | Copy

That shit pisses me off but its true.

[–]imtheoneimmortal5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

why?

[–]11-Eleven-112 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

I was drunk when I said that.

[–]imtheoneimmortal1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

i also drink but never get angry only chill and funny

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock[🍰] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Some people get weird when they drink. If you havent drank with someone, you dont know them.

[–]imtheoneimmortal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yea it's funny for that

[–]ScottyMo14 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

this

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

See my post "They're All Players". It starts at age 12 friendos

[–]pame1273 points74 points  (1 child) | Copy

They're just "advertising" their popularity by taking pictures with lots of girls and telling a potential high smv male that they are "available" by taking pictures of barely any or no males.

[–]RememberWhenEye20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

In short, they're for sale and looking for a higher bidder .

[–]Auxfite144 points145 points  (4 children) | Copy

More attention. Women know a male isn’t gonna follow them or keep up with her if she’s always posting her bf.

[–]sehns28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the correct response. More followers.

[–]Fadeshyy9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. More correct than the higher incel-ish responses.

[–]ElegantCyclist2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

More attention. Women know a male isn’t gonna follow them or keep up with her if she’s always posting her bf.

And most guys waste or dissipate their attention, allowing this whole system to work.

[–]ghosts_of_me91 points92 points  (13 children) | Copy

Cause when they break up they dont have photos they wish werent there.

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven21 points22 points  (8 children) | Copy

A level of logic i thought was beyond them 0.0

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (6 children) | Copy

This forethought is purely subconscious, I assure you.

[–]Rogdozz1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Why do you think that?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I only said it in a joking manner, but I guess it could be true as well. Women are Machiavellian by nature, they don't have to put that much conscious thought into it.

[–]Rogdozz0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah but they don’t use social media by nature, so I assume at least some thought has to have went into it

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sure, they don't use social media by nature. But all their actions are determined by their emotion and how they feel about something. Emotion is related to their gut feeling and instinct, which comes by nature.

[–]1ANGRY_ATHEIST0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've seen women who are absolute imbeciles do this sort of thing naturally

[–]Internet-Troll1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Who you tryna kid

[–]Kenny_Twenty 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

This is incorrect.

[–]ghosts_of_me1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You cant say that without giving a substitute answer.

[–]Lunchabel9724 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because they like the attention of other males

[–]chomponthebit20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because all women want to Level Up from their present boy

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Attention whores love attention. Haz BF? Less attention on Instawhore. Simples.

[–]2comment13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Branch swinging.

[–]artbyrez25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

By worrying about this you are stepping into her frame. Implement dread, watch her spam you on social Media

[–]LarryLove10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

A lot of times, the sugar daddy is just out of frame. Or taking the picture.

[–]boy_named_su12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

hypergamy

[–]17O86 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Marketing.

[–]joner8886 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Maybe cause they dont feel like they need to showcase their boyfriend on social media and neither should the boyfriend . If your a guy and post pics with your girl on IG and she doesnt , somethings off

[–]dvneyman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

exactly. BP me made excuses for my ex. fuck that.

[–]auxiliary74 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

In my experience most girls who are in a relationship don't look like they're single on social media at all. They usually post pictures of themselves with their boyfriends.

[–]FZ_BA2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They display an availability which can be good both for having sex with other men they physically like or taking advantage of other men they don't physically like

[–]mrthrowaway4132 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Usually i sororities at smaller schools like mine they won’t even cheat outright. More of a branch swing. When hes on her social media looking like a baller is when you know she might be satisfied by her choice, for now atleast.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Husbands are a trophy worth showing off, boyfriends are a phase. Just the closest orbiter or a beta bucks. Why give him any room to breathe where he's only a fraction of her attention?

[–]Luckyluke231 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

because that's how they get paid. another man fantasy is her money

[–]cptgoatsack1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

So they can always branch swing.

[–]seedster51 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

He's an emotional placeholder to complain about how Jenny is a huge bitch.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why do girls in relationships on social media looks like they’re single?

Attention, options.

[–]unana11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a funny one, and am not sure if I actually have a proper answer for this. The boyfriend does not want to be on their IG? The bf does not fit in the perfect picture? They don't even think of it?

I guess it really differs per individual. In the mean time, do check this podcast: 21st Century Dating: Examining The Influence of Social Media (podcast) It definitely did clarify me the role of social media in a relationship, pretty sure it will do it for you as well.

[–]MRPFuckMe13 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Probably because the only photos these dudes care to take are the ones their girlfriend told them to. So that’s what they put on social media. How many photos are taken when you’re hanging out with your boys?

[–]griz3lda0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good point. I can't think of an instance of taking photos while just chilling since last Halloween (due to costumes).

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why does it matter?

[–]Brickles090 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because they are alpha as we wish we could be.

[–]mrHappyPotatoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because not like you they play the game.

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Attention.

That's it lol.

[–]kiarazeida0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is no way to tell, unless you know their intention behind social media. Content vs Creator. Does she want a platform based on her personal life or professional? She could be an insecure brat who doesn’t want any of her girlfriends seeing what’s it like to date her man. Or she could be a boss bitch who probably hasn’t even introduced him to her father and won’t bother putting his ego up on a pedestal celebrating every month he stayed with one commitment.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

girls like that have what are called "throwaway boyfriends". like anytime a better guy comes around she monkey branches. shes currently using him just for money and benefits.

[–]Random_throwaway_0000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They are always single for the right guy.



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