M ex in high school was very attractive but for some reason she was super into me even tho i was so awkward. We never hooked up though but now i want to, I think back when we dated i put out a uncaring indifferent vibe and i remember just not paying her attention and pretending to ignore her shit tests before i even knew what they were should i repeat that strategy?. Ever since we broke up a few years ago shes come over to my house multiple times but she always brings her friend too and i would pussy out because i was insecure. I've been such a pussy about it but now i want to hookup, lately though she has been less interested but shell message me on snap and purposely not reply to try and get some power or somehting. what can i do to spike attraction over text or snapchat? she lives far away because of college but she visits a lot.