Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history and I think it killed my chances with her. How do I recover?

Lukap295 · 2018-10-22T13:02:08+00:00

She's probably gonna read this post too lol

CalvinRichland · 2018-10-22T12:29:08+00:00

Ha ha you are such a pussy she bullied you into lying about who you vote for

MattyAnon · 2018-10-22T12:53:34+00:00

Of course she's unable to realize how it actually saves men's lives.

Also: unable to care.

. She got really angry and started grilling me out of nowhere about things I posted to TRP and asktrp.

Correct response here is one sentence of smirking and deflecting. If it continues, get up and leave.

It was emasculating and at that point I just felt defeated. She said she had to go to bed and that I needed to leave.

Should have left sooner. This was all a trap designed to give her "closure", which means demonstrating your lack of attractiveness, her power, and her superiority.

Is there any possible way for me to recover from this

THIS IS YOUR PROBLEM.

You are in "make it work" mode with her. "Must try to placate m'lady that I may be allowed vaginal access once more".

Your trying-to-make-it-work is feeding her entitlement and proving to her that she's right to question and ultimately reject you.

You put up with her disrespect by taking it serious, sticking around, and now trying to make it work.

Learn to have so many more options that the moment a girl becomes unappealing you walk.

XT3M3 · 2018-10-22T12:39:10+00:00

lmfaoooo why are you scared to lose this girl? good fucking riddance if she leaves. she literally has you so shook you need to lie about who you voted for, like shes not going to find out in 2020 if you stay together.

you're the prize. not her . never be scared to be yourself. if you need to change then she aint it chief.

now about the red pill shit, own it. she found it? own the fuck out of it implying you been gaming her right i would imagine its working and she feels a type of way cause of it and is playing even more hard to get. in that case , ditch the bitch .

you shouldn't have to hide anything to make people like you.

babybopp · 2018-10-22T12:13:47+00:00

"Hurr durr you don't want to answer because I'm shit testing you, right?"

She's 100% right lmao

Also, don't disclose your TRP/T_D identity to anyone. Keep that under lock real good.

Lightways434 · 2018-10-22T15:51:42+00:00

“I guess you’re just a beta cuck now.”

Bro I’m sorry but I fucking lost it reading that lmfao.

Just next this hoe and be done with it.

JarHeadJoseph · 2018-10-22T15:05:12+00:00

Women hate redpill stuff because they only want a natural alpha. The idea of being impregnated by a false Chad horrifies them. It's not a coincidence most "advice" they give is some variant of "be yourself!". Many view any kind of self-improvement talk as a violation of the natural order.

Separate accounts are a great idea, by the way. I have a main account for history, outdoors, meme, and parenting groups that people do know about and only open this alt in incognito mode.

Rosace_89 · 2018-10-22T13:27:23+00:00

next her

being a fake alpha is worst than being a beta in the eyes on a female

also, you can create a whole new account, this kind of woman can't understand what's talked about on this community, you can see it by how she miss-use some words you read around on here

all in all, interesting and fun story OP

opper-hombre1 · 2018-10-22T15:17:41+00:00

Lmao literally failed the shit test of a shit test

GreatMenderTeapill · 2018-10-22T12:10:37+00:00

Soft next her. Dont reinitate

ThatKidinAfrica · 2018-10-22T12:48:52+00:00

She made you lie about who you voted for? You Pussy, Just next her.

flatox · 2018-10-22T14:50:15+00:00

Lift, work hard and fuck other women. It is the answer to everything.

Brickles09 · 2018-10-22T15:02:45+00:00

Betrayed Emperor Trump like a BetaCuck! She is right about you.

anonymouspotatoe69 · 2018-10-22T15:29:55+00:00

This post hurt my chest.

GreatMenderTeapill · 2018-10-22T12:17:36+00:00

having to drive home alone in my car with my dick in my hand.

Is there another way to drive?

MisplacedSanityP · 2018-10-22T12:49:18+00:00

Dude, she disrespected you so fucking hard. If you want to be an actual beta cuck, keep pursuing. Otherwise, hard next. Just don't reveal any information regarding your reddit. If you need to, use two separate accounts.

ScratchinCommander · 2018-10-22T12:09:23+00:00

LMAO. Thanks for the laughs.

latinasonly · 2018-10-22T13:08:21+00:00

You don't let girls find this. Ever. I am in a 2-year LTR and I've only ever alluded to TRP, not made it available even in the slightest.
As soon as she did find it, you needed to own it. "Oh, you don't believe in TRP? Funny cuz it works on you, little girl." That shit melts girls. I wouldn't use talking about TRP as a normal course of action, but if a girl finds out, owning it can work wonders. I've converted my LTR from pretty liberal to hating the feminist agenda because she knows it's bullshit. I don't let her hamster because I think quicker and she can't deny that the things I do turn her on--and I am not "her equal" in the relationship. Far from. If you showed this girl how little substance everything she thought she believed in actually had, she'd suck your dick every day for the next month. Girls love to lose to men in arguments, but you lost frame.

lololasaurus · 2018-10-22T15:07:44+00:00

"are you a TRP guy?" "yes, I'm a red pill fellow." Autistic screeching "Well dear if you don't like it I'm not holding you hostage, there's the door~"

Mind you I'm not a fellow with the strongest frame ever but you have literally none. Lying about who you voted for lol 😂

1NV0K3R · 2018-10-22T14:48:25+00:00

Man if there wasn't EVER a time to used agree and amplify

This could easily have turned into a rage fuck lol

ProFriendZoner · 2018-10-22T18:04:49+00:00

Da fuq I just read?!?!?

ONE woman saw this?

Why are you worried about what ONE woman thinks?

Abundance!!!

Psychological_Radish · 2018-10-22T14:46:05+00:00

Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history

This is why you do what I do and have two Reddit accounts. Also, how did she find your Reddit history in the first place? You need to enforce personal boundaries a bit better.

I've been seeing this super liberal girl

Fail. Feminists are for fun/fucking, not relationships.

she also asked if I voted for Trump (which I did). I told her I didn't because she's super liberal and I knew that would kill any chances I had with her.

That's the most Beta thing I've read on here in awhile. Shame on you.

I literally didn't know what to say

That was the Pearl Harbor of shit tests. The most you could do is watch like Admiral Kimmel, dumbfounded, and get shot in the chest.

What would you have done in that situation?

I would have never dated this whacko in the first place. Truly feminine women that give a shit about you won't care about your politics. Safeguard yourself from now on.

bostezo22 · 2018-10-22T13:03:12+00:00

Your frame drop soooooooooooo deep.

Bro:

If you read TRP, you do. My LTR found out my reddit and I smile and told her "you know now why I make you so happy, it was never me".
You lie about your vote? Stop getting into her frame. You dont care a shit about what she think of your political views.

My advice is you should hard next her and avoid becaming a pussy when some liberal chick start rushing at you.

Stand for yourself, your opinions and thoughts. Let her come to your frame. If she won't, next girl will do.

Sorry for my english and good luck bro!

GayLubeOil · 2018-10-22T14:39:23+00:00

She grinds her asshole on strange dicks while black men chant bitches ain't shit. That's her primary form of entertainment.

She doesn't have a right to be triggered.

BusterVadge · 2018-10-22T15:01:16+00:00

Where's your abundance mentality, son?

Ramp_Up_Then_Dump · 2018-10-22T18:03:05+00:00

You may not be cuck but this post show you are beta af. Own your shit next time and remember the one who needs other less have the power in relationship.

319Skew · 2018-10-22T14:23:32+00:00

It's over move on.

Proper response is to have enough frame that you don't compromise your identity to a woman. You should be able to pressure flip or threaten her by walking away.

I'm a meat eating hunter banging an animal Rights vegan. She's so afraid of losing me that when she had to go away for a week she kept sending me nudes and got jealous about the other women I'm talking to. Tried to make me jealous but it back fired when it looked like I would walk away because I held frame and resulted in her doing everything to keep me.

I'm not saying that as a brag because you can do that too. This is more of an example. Hell, I occasionally fuck up (currently fighting oneitis feels).

Maintain your frame always and more quality women will stay.

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T17:36:24+00:00

Quick! Put on your pink pussy hat, delete your RP posts, open an account in your own name on the blue pill forums and profess your undying subservience to her there. Slavishly go after her and denounce RP in all forms.

Let her know that your immersion in her frame was pleasurable and that it's not your fault. Thank her for bringing you to your senses, and that you needed a strong SJW like her to see the light.

Edit: Tell her you are enrolling at STony Brooks course for masculine ex-RP He-men and majoring in gender equality. That will impress her even more by totally immersing into her frame. Thank her for femsplaining your toxic masculinity. Next offer to video tape her CC boyfriend(s), while you watch from the corner.

HumbleTrees · 2018-10-22T13:47:39+00:00

This is such a hilarious balls up.

Simple as "if you don't like it, there's the door love. I've got more important shit to worry about". And if she carries on you just walk away. Refuse to have anything more to say about it. She can like it or lump it. Sounds like a fucking handful anyway and do you really want that?

wonderlandwarlock · 2018-10-22T13:01:54+00:00

Hard next. Abundance mentality. Fuck dis bitch. Don’t catch oneitis. Spin some more plates. One love.

beachbbqlover · 2018-10-22T17:15:43+00:00

> Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history and I think it killed my chances with her. How do I recover?

Recovering your dignity is going to take a few steps.

You claim you posted to TRP and obviously haven't learned much about TRP basic principles. The correct place to ask questions is on asktrp.
She went through your reddit account and the discussion was that you made posts on TRP. You failed her. She's a soft next.
Go see a chiropractor. Your spine needs some serious adjusting.
Better luck on the next one.

I have 2 actual points to learn from:

Responding to evidence because someone went through your online accounts is like responding to police who did a break and entry to find out you smoke weed. If you just shut up and calmly point out it's unacceptable to do that, the rest is inadmissible in court. I have more than once summarily dismissed people for this.
Explaining yourself is socially a weak irresponsible subordinate behavior, but it can be useful logically to put the facts out. Think of it like showing your cards to someone during a card game. Only do it if you're lost and actually need help from that person.
Unless it's your kink, don't subordinate to women you're attracted to.

johncillo · 2018-10-22T20:41:15+00:00

upvote because this is comedy gold

DeontologicalSanders · 2018-10-22T20:55:22+00:00

Yep, you fucked up. Not only by letting her find your post history, but also by ever actually admitting that it was yours (assuming your real name wasn't attached to it).

One of the most striking things about TRP is that it is full of truths that, while absolutely undeniable, are too harsh to ever be spoken aloud. In very much the opposite way, liberalism/feminism is full of specious, socially-palatable bullshit that, while completely factually incorrect, is unfalsifiable in polite company, because to deny it would make you 'racist', or 'sexist', or just plain mean.

A lot of people on here are making fun of you and calling you a faggot, but I'm not going to continue with that, as it's not constructive. So here's what you do:

First, obviously never contact her again. Second, delete her from everything.

Erase any record of any interaction or conversation that you've had with her. Her number. Text threads. Call logs. Social media connections. Erase, but do not block. Essentially, make it look like you've never met her or spoken with her. Women are outrageously vindictive when it comes to anything that helpfully systematizes or categorizes them, and lends men a hand in reading through the bullshit that gives them an edge. There's always a chance she might find out you're seeing another girl and message her to try and out you as a 'misogynist', and fuck up your chances. If that sounds ridiculous, believe me, it isn't.

Basically, set yourself up in such a way that if that ever happens, you can deny, deny, deny, and the girl in question will be left holding a paper bag full of dog shit.

shango130 · 2018-10-22T19:31:22+00:00

This post smells fishy...I think OP is a female using this post to collect data. The post is just too on the nose and the writing feels is way too anecdotal. Calling bullshit.

pascuccired · 2018-10-22T16:24:38+00:00

Here's an upvote for voting for Trump.

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T12:15:01+00:00

Well you deserve it tbh. Beta cuck.

Tactics you use on her is temporary, long term effect would be you being an old nasty dude with no one who would love you for who you are.. only your bank account (if you're rich).

kick6 · 2018-10-22T13:43:39+00:00

This is a troll, right?

btharmony · 2018-10-22T17:17:59+00:00

You sound like the biggest pussy cuck. For fucks sake who cares?

falecf4 · 2018-10-22T17:30:13+00:00

I dont think you can next her because she just HARD next-ed you!

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T18:17:33+00:00

First rule is don't talk about Fight Club you idiot. Now you know why, move on and don't repeat the same mistake again

Cmdrj-nice · 2018-10-22T19:02:24+00:00

You are autistic or a troll

EnzoGold · 2018-10-22T19:44:49+00:00

Bro you are such a pussy oh my god HAHAHAHAHAHA fuck bro She's a bitch how u let her grill u LMFAO

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T19:45:47+00:00

Oh man matt matt matt.

I don't know if there is any way to 'recover' from this. I don't see you saying how invested you are in the relationship. This is the number one reason to be abundant with women, when something like this comes up and a woman just hammers on you about things you can tell her "hey no problem, sorry you are offended I'll get out of your life"

You should be able to do that with a wink and a smile at any moment.

You could try to talk to her about it, but I'm going to have to dig through your post history and see what creeping your shit might look like to a woman that I ASSUME will be triggered by 'locker room talk' [thx Trump] and in general men calling women bitches or whatever else I might come to find there.. Then I'll come back and have some more tips hopefully.

Now before I do that, let me just say 5 of the last 10 women I dated were fully aware of my involvement here on the redpill, but they also know I'm not totally on the juice. I lean heavy into the Cosmo mentality, LOL at least that's what I was flamed for last.

Really felt good to get bashed on for a bit.

Anyhow, you might be able to convince her that your hatred for the actions surrounded Hillary turned you to Trump, you might be able to say you are here to improve yourself, not prey on women like some kind of abusive creep.

You can ALSO fucking tell her NO she was NOT shit testing you, that was 100% a comfort test, and a beta CUCK watches OTHER DUDES fuck his girl, which he probably in some ways glorifies and financially supports.

Finally you tell her you two are DATING and if she's not interested in hearing the whole story she's just a shallow puppet for the propaganda machine. Tell her Republicans and Democrats have plenty of empty heads to fill up with shit to puke out and she might as well be one of them if she can't have a rational discussion about a male empowerment site....

Ok off to creep your history!

cubicpolynomial3 · 2018-10-23T00:36:23+00:00

Damn, you're the same guy who wrote that "fixing an 18 yo bug in a game" article. Didnt expect to see you here. Dude you gotta have separate accounts for this shit.

InformalCriticism · 2018-10-23T00:42:36+00:00

hahaha damn dude.

Okay, first of all, if you didn't want her to know, you would have tried harder.

If she found out because she's smarter than you, then the relationship was going to be shit anyways.

Just take some solace in the fact that she will be one of the thousands who hit the wall early.

Do not ever contact her again.

If she contacts you, you can game from there, but it sounds like you're young, just game step by step... Don't try too hard.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-10-22T13:52:32+00:00

HOLD FRAME

Don’t apologize for who you are. Hold strong.

agsuy · 2018-10-22T12:34:10+00:00

Well that is how u lose.

U didnt have an answer and feel defeated. And she know it .

U needed only one thing. Reframing

A good answer to "Are u using trp on me?" would ve been something in the lines of "Would that work on u?"

follow up being:

"Of crse not" -> "Thats your answer"

"yes-maybe" -> "Why.....something related to her" Here u re reframing the situation. Now her must explain how she agrees with the trp.

Hope it helps

Radinax · 2018-10-22T13:50:10+00:00

Who the fuck cares? Tell her what TRP is about and end of story, if she wants to be with you cool, if she doesnt just get another one.

APSTNDPhy · 2018-10-22T14:14:34+00:00

Imagine you went through her Reddit history

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T15:33:20+00:00

Hahaha this is hilarious because it reminds me of a similar event that happened to me not too long ago. I laugh about in now so know that you probably will too. She's mot likely making excuses for how easily she was gamed by someone so unlike her in order to protect her self image. I have a feeling she'll come crawling back soon but in the meantime, look for some potential plates.

Blastyoface · 2018-10-22T13:34:10+00:00

Hopefully you learned your lesson from this... Stupid move. Cut your losses

seedster5 · 2018-10-22T13:46:59+00:00

Next girl. Don't talk about reddit next time

Blazer2100 · 2018-10-22T14:02:53+00:00

ABORT ABORT ABORT

DadOnDabs · 2018-10-22T14:36:37+00:00

This is the best thread I've seen in a while. I bet her first thought was, "I bet he posts this on askTRP"

Treinstein · 2018-10-22T15:16:59+00:00

Fuuuck her man, fond someone else or be alone.

ryeprotagonist · 2018-10-22T15:36:55+00:00

Gimmie an "N"!

Gimmie an "E"!....

DirtyBastard13 · 2018-10-22T16:02:59+00:00

Agree and Amplify, Cool story babe, wheres my sandwhich?

EvanPetersDouble · 2018-10-22T16:07:45+00:00

Frame. You need to be ready to go to arms at any moment son.

saucebyt · 2018-10-22T16:09:30+00:00

Fuck that stupid bitch, block her now!

linkofinsanity19 · 2018-10-22T16:31:59+00:00

Then out of nowhere she also asked if I voted for Trump (which I did). I told her I didn't because she's super liberal and I knew that would kill any chances I had with her.

Don't ever lie to agree with a woman. That's beta. Here, you should have stuck to your guns and told the truth. Never let the pussy sway you. You're supposed to have a rock solid frame.

"I guess you're just a beta cuck now"

You should have told her to kick rocks at this point. By her calling you that and you just taking it, you entered her frame. It is better to not take her crap and lose her than to try to avoid confrontation and hope she's "gracious" enough to still let you have sex with her.

I suggest nexting her and begin trying to aquire new plates. TRP is about bettering yourself as a man. It is not just about learning game so you can get laid. Never forget this.

red_matrix · 2018-10-22T16:45:10+00:00

Next her and try to understand what you did wrong.

mugenowns · 2018-10-22T18:29:30+00:00

You should have walked out right there. You've wasted your time. You lost a chance because you read TRP but you clearly didn't internalize it since you're lying about who you vote for and even tried escalating again.

The second she decided to shut it down you should have gone home. You could have spent the night reading or playing games; instead you wasted it on a bitch

mushroom_overlord · 2018-10-22T18:32:37+00:00

Next her, you fucked up giving away info to your personal account. Next time, either don't give info or make an alt now and start posting/subscribing to random harmless shit.

F_Dingo · 2018-10-22T18:51:21+00:00

"Oh, you don't want to answer because I'm shit testing you, right? That's what this is, just a shit test?" and I literally didn't know what to say... I tried to make a move again and she said that she wasn't going to do anything with me tonight and even unironically said "I guess you're just a beta cuck now"

GOD DAMN, what a burn!

Just ghost her and move on. Don't tell people you post on Reddit I guess lol.

Versecker · 2018-10-22T19:24:43+00:00

"I told her I didn't because she's super liberal and I knew that would kill any chances I had with her" I believe TRP does not teach this.

PIGamer86 · 2018-10-22T19:45:47+00:00

Agree and amplify. However, it might already be too late since you’ve acted like a pussy already. That’s fine, learn from this.

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T19:59:17+00:00

Shit this must be on my front page look at all these posts.

As far as I looked back dude, you've made like a single post on trp and like one comment IN A FUCKING YEAR.

Is this the account she found?

EDIT: Also at your age don't worry about it, you need to focus on approaching more women anyways. It's shit that this one got pissed but there are so many women in your future, best to just let this one slide unless somehow she just easily slips back into your life.

[deleted] · 2018-10-22T20:01:32+00:00

You had to lie to her and she's manipulating YOU now? You fucked up OP.

NEXT!

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2018-10-22T20:11:02+00:00

It's over bro. Time to move on. Plate is broken beyond repair.

FleetingWish · 2018-10-22T20:16:39+00:00

Oh, you don't want to answer because I'm shit testing you, right?

Of course it is, she's giving you shit to see how you respond to it... what else could it possibly be? For the record you didn't pass the test.

Olram_Sacul · 2018-10-22T20:18:03+00:00

That's fucked up man, but you know what you have to do. Next the bitch and be more careful in the future

Pocketyuf · 2018-10-22T21:00:47+00:00

Well OP, like people said, she probably did all of this for her own closure, so I go with the majority when they say next her.

However, if you REALLY want a second shot with this girl, I'm not even sure what you could do.

I would try to call her after a few days and see how she reacts. If she start saying shit about TRP, Trump, etc, just dismiss it as not-a-big-deal (which it isn't, really) and tell her I want to hang out and have fun. If you take her seriously, you will get into her frame and yes, she will do the fuck she wants with you. Have some respect man.

adeptintact · 2018-10-22T22:16:54+00:00

Your weakest beta move was lying about who you voted for. Own who you are and don't lie just to get a girl's approval.

inittowinit777 · 2018-10-22T22:54:48+00:00

Is there any possible way for me to recover from this or should I next her?

Tbh, it's frankly pathetic that you're still thinking about "recovering" your situation with this nosey-ass psychotic hoe who literally went dumpster diving in your reddit comment history to scope you out. She sounds fucking horrible, a liberal redditor chick who used sex as a bargaining tool and made you her beta bitch, which you fully deserved btw

Next her HARD - cut off all contact cold turkey and block her from everything. Even if this situation was salvageable (which it probably isn't), why would you want the presence of a bitch in your life who will constantly try to emasculate and undermine you? Trust me, you don't need that kind of bad energy pulling you down further into beta territory.

What would you have done in that situation?

I can guarantee you right now, me and 95% of the RP subreddit would never ever find ourselves in this situation to begin with. Getting all gaga with a girl and sharing your reddit info with her? Then literally freezing in fear when she acts all nasty and bitchy and confronts you with some BS? Come on man, you've got to be better than that. Take your lessons from this and move on.

FWIW, I believe in sharing as little as possible about yourself during your initial interactions with a girl. This retains an aura of mystery since she doesn't know every single little thing about you. Make her work for whatever information she wants to get out of you (if you choose to give it out, that is).

wawakaka · 2018-10-22T12:32:16+00:00

You should have left the moment she shit tested you

Not only that she invaded your privacy

Next and don't look back liberal women are nuts

slayer-booty · 2018-10-22T14:44:13+00:00

Where the [email protected]$k is your backbone? Where is your self respect. Should have stood up for yourself and told her where to go. There's plenty of plates out there to spin my dude. Kmonnnnnnn.....

VojvodaSrpski · 2018-10-22T15:35:01+00:00

You’re selling your very soul by pursuing this girl. You lost the frame as soon as you lied about not voting for Orange man bad. Either she respects you and your independence or you move on to some other girl that does.

Original_Dankster · 2018-10-22T14:04:11+00:00

"That's what this is, just a shit test?"

"Yes, you're being a little shit-testing brat. Now start behaving properly or we're done."

"Did you vote for Trump?"

"We have a secret ballot system for a reason. None of your fucking business... But yes."

I don't feel like digging through my years of reddit posts to delete anything that might possibly be considered offensive because it could "trigger" girls.

Then don't tell them your reddit handle, you fucking dummy. But if they do ever find it, own it like a boss. freew33zy gave solid advice. Follow it.

EvanPetersDouble · 2018-10-22T16:10:39+00:00

Not to shame you even more like the rest of the tools here do,but you're an idiot for posting after she knows you're here. Total false RP programmed kid. Just live your life.

Nergaal · 2018-10-22T17:23:46+00:00

First rule of TRP: NEVER TALK ABOUT TRP

UnluckyPenguin · 2018-10-22T17:29:04+00:00

Women like to snoop, it's in their nature.

My wife will occasionally read over my shoulder, but she's able to comprehend why TRP work.

Tell the girl you're seeing to read 'the rational male' and her brain will melt from all the truth.

Title	Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history and I think it killed my chances with her. How do I recover?
Author	mattbrah
Upvotes	73
Comments	136
Date	22 October 2018 12:02 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/135393
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9qd6c7/girl_im_seeing_found_trp_posts_in_my_reddit/

Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history and I think it killed my chances with her. How do I recover?

I feel like I'm watching a trainwreck in slow motion

It's Hip to be Square.

Asked a female subreddit about their opinion on my living situation