This is a really hard choice for me as I have to choose between 2 really good schools who offer different, yet equally valuable things to me. I want to assert my independence as man, but the realization that this could seriously affect my next 4 years of life is dawning on me. I'm a Computer Science major fyi.

A&M is the party school of my dreams with great academics, as I can move out and get away from my parents + practice my game more easily. However, I will not receive any scholarships and will be likely paying the 21k a year.

UTD offers equally if not better academics AND I receive full tuition + 2k a semester stipend + I get to live with my parents. The downsides are that I will be living at home and that's not good for logistics, and UTD isn't known as a party school/difficult to game.

My lizard brain is telling me I have to be independent and stake it out on my own, but my logical mind says it's not worth paying so much money for school.

What should I do based on you guy's experiences with life?