I really wanna go to my Oneitus house and confess my undying love. But I know it’s a wrong move. What even is this?

Rosace_89 · 2018-11-08T09:07:46+00:00

go over to see your plate and confess to her you want to pin her to a wall and fuck her deep and hard

Velebit · 2018-11-08T09:14:37+00:00

If you are her first bf or sex partner, you have a +60% chance of actually having a happily ever after. But women, even virgins, and one explicitly told me this, HATE the idea of being a crutch for a man.

Women (and most men) desire someome who can have anyone and is at least a little challenging to keep.

It is called Ikea effect and it means that people get emotionally invested and care for things that require work. Ikea made a scientific study and found people expressed bigger satisfaction with furniture they assembled like amateurs themselves then identical furniture professionals assembled. It makes no sense but it's how our stupid biology often works. If you tell her that, you are telling her 'you do not need to bother working to win me or keep me'. You can be 90% sure she does not feel the same as you and even if she does, that does not mean it will work out to great. My buddies love of his life married him after a year and shortly after marriage let go of herself and got fatter.

I know it seems like that is something you wanna share but, you can do it in a way that does not capitulate to her. Women can sense how you feel and you can show her by touch and look.

What you feel is a sense of bonding. It is oxytocin. After a couple of sex partners your ability to bond will dry out and you will never feel that way or so strongly. You will probably get some paternalizing half mocking replies from old men who have no ability to bond any more and will repeat like parrots 'she ain't yours it's your turn' etc... but humans evolved thanks to picky selection, monogamy, bonding, heavy parent and partner investment and loyalty. Don't allow old farts who failed fill your head with defeatist crap. Just don't spill your guts to her and don't make her feel undue control over you.

Also try to game other women to test your own commitment.

[deleted] · 2018-11-08T09:17:36+00:00

Just let that shit go

Musicgoon · 2018-11-08T10:11:46+00:00

Just think of it this way : What you're saying right now is the equivalent of, " I want to smear freshly made dog shit all over my face, find my girl, and give her a passionate open mouth kiss.

You know the reaction to each... Not fucking good bro.

Title	I really wanna go to my Oneitus house and confess my undying love. But I know it’s a wrong move. What even is this?
Author	OfficerWade
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	November 8, 2018 8:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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