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Day 6 + 7 - Learn and Introspect

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January 19, 2013
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You have "The manipulated man" by now.

This weekend, Read through (and including) to section "The Fair Sex"


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Title Day 6 + 7 - Learn and Introspect
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 17
Comments 17
Date 19 January 2013 03:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit becomeaman
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/137275
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/comments/16vmkv/day_6_7_learn_and_introspect/
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[–]MockingDead 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

The book enrages me. I am furious. Even as I sit, freed of all the slavery (unemployed, no house, no commitments) I ams eeking ways to commit to something.

When I say I don't want to do IT anymore people get quiet. Real quiet.

Fuck off, I spent 12 years getting a job and having a career when I could have banging hot chicks while painting them like french girsl and being ina band and doing martial arts.

I want to do something I am proud of. I want to be proud of myself. Having a shit job has never made me feel proud about myself the way increasing my squat weight or performing a seo-nagi has. or sketching, or playing a song just right

Fuck, Ima going to go flip a table.

[–]pillpaxton 20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

[–]theubercuberMan: First Class 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you! I found that site but my stupid work mac wouldn't let me save it properly and this finally works.

[–]ospurt 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Reflection on week one.

First, being a Gen X'er with war baby parents (not boomers) who was married for 12 years, grew up in a very conservative traditional home (church Boy Scouts, etc.) and was fed "be a good guy", "girls want X" by feminine society and unsuspecting parents, scout and church leaders. To say I have had to have a paradigm shift is an understatement.

So far I have all of these week one basic skills and they are all well developed, I just haven't used them for my own sexual/relationship survival in a long time...and last time I did, the rules were VERY different. Looking back, how my nice guy training got me the wife I had is amazing.

I am grateful I started taking the RedPill BEFORE wading out into the SMP as a full on participant in November. I did score a 7~8 who was 9 years my junior pretty quickly. Problem is she is moving some distance away and now the second is turning out much harder.

I haven't decided if it is I know I can pull a 7~8 and am limiting my pool (which requires tighter game in my town full of strapping unattached 30 y.o. guys with easy oil boom money), my cynicism from RedPill wisdom, or lacking certain game/alpha skills.

Either way, every bar/club I go into has a M/F ratio of 65/35 and they are full of late 20s early 30s oilfield guys with quick cash. The bars are a nightmare scenario for a 40 something outgoing professional who lives comfortably and travels.

I'm here to improve and tighten up my game...a lot. I have to. It is a bit unsettling to see where I need a lot of improvement.

[–]VZPurpMan: First Class 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

It is hard to put down this book.

[–]redpillschool[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I read the entire thing in one sitting.

[–]VZPurpMan: First Class 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, no kidding. I'll be done later this evening when I get a chance to continue. A lot of food for thought.

Will there be consistent reading assignments? I've come to love the work of unplugged thinkers.

[–]redpillschool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, I'm going to try to keep a good reading list as we progress. It may not be obvious up front - but one of the books I have in the list is about the evolution of the brain. I feel that having a good understanding of all the mechanisms will allow becomeaman-men to really hone their skills.

[–][deleted] 4 points4 points | Copy

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

the debate is stunning. Language is beautiful, but more importantly she comes across as...can I say lovely? I'm pulled in and charmed, maybe it's due to the foreign effect. But I have yet to feel this way in my day to day life after discovering TRP. Sets the bar for the quality of woman to look for.

[–]skgoa 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Those women are quite definitely out there! The problem is that many of those who aren't that quality get away with too much asshatery.

[–]Beast66 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That feminist wouldn't shut up. She talked for like 80% of the interview, was disrespectful, and talked over her. Disgusting

[–]Mooshaq 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for posting this. The amount of ad hominem attacks on Ms. Vilar in the first ten minutes was absolutely astounding.

Some of my favorite examples:
(8:24) Aren't you ashamed of yourself? Miss Vilar, you should know that there's the rumor circulating about you that...
(8:36) And to repeat such a grotesque defamation...you couldn't actually aim that low, could you?

Was this video ever cross-posted into TRP? I think a lot of guys there would enjoy it (hell, it took me 4 months to find it, and I'm on TRP a lot).

[–]Imaman_hear_me_roar 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

After reading the manipulated man I can't but agree on most points, but bear with me here as I'll probably appear hamster whipped. The book generalizes fairly heavily as if all women are shallow whores who refuse to learn and work, but I know of a few which don't fit into that category at all. The women I'm talking about are quite rare and far from being in the majority though, hard working and able to have an intelligent discussion beyond what is currently in the headlines of womens magazines. Unfortunately those few seem to be shat upon by other women who criticise them for being know-it-alls who just try to suck up to the guys. I don't know why that is, perhaps they're afraid that they won't get away with hamstering out of work if someone competent shows up? What do you people think?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's what i'm getting from it, i think it unfairly paints women as complete and utter idiots.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Great read. Seemed a little dated and more about women of that era. Wish I had read this 30 years ago. It still has relevancy though women back then probably didn't work as they do now. Of course the state supports them these days if they have kids without men. Hard to see how boys/men can escape the matrix she describes. They are our mothers after all. Then again, I do believe boys should be raised by their fathers/men. Brave insightful woman that wrote it. Thanks.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Read the book up to that part. Too much fluff.. but helped reposition a lot of things in head.



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