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How To Have Memorable Sex

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June 6, 2014
62 upvotes
/r/becomeaman/comments/27fnj5/how_to_have_memorable_sex/


Post Information
Title How To Have Memorable Sex
Author Femme_Murican
Upvotes 62
Comments 28
Date 06 June 2014 01:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit becomeaman
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/137441
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/comments/27fnj5/how_to_have_memorable_sex/
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[–] points  (3 children) | Copy

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[–]chancethebanker 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The naked man. Works two out of three times, guaranteed.

[–]cumdumpster_Ruto 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

In the heat of the moment who knows who is gonna get naked first it could be you or it could be her. Usually her as you should start undressing her. Best clothes related sex advise I've ever gotten was ALWAY TAKE YOUR SHIRT OFF FIRST!! nothing is less attractive than a man wearing a shirt but no pants

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

One person should not get totally naked before the other has taken off their clothes - you take off shirt, she takes off shirt, you take off pants, she takes off pants

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

Something to add you guys.

Wearing socks leads to more orgasms for women. I'm not saying get a sock fetish but, you know... Make her wear socks.

Also, the hotter the room, the better the orgasm. I personally like my silk bed sheets as it makes women go insane. You know, sensuality and all.

I wish I had sources for these, but I forgot what I read them.

[–]NijjioN 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Someone find the sources please... Never heard the socks thing before.

Maybe as women could be insecure of their feet and socks hide them? Pressure of socks make orgasams better, as orgasams have been linked to feet... I don't know I'm just guessing.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

actually, like i said, the hotter the room, the greater the orgasm. I believe socks just make it hotter on their feet and since women are all "ooo~ touch me sensually," it works.

[–] points  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]NumberWangBot 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

2011 That's NumberWang!!

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[–]Theophagist 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

If I want to remember sex I bring a camera.

[–]banqostoast 6 points7 points  (10 children) | Copy

you can train her by rewarding submissive movements (bending over etc etc) by rubbing her clit. This will give her a memory of sexual pleasure from when she submitted to you and then over time her wants will slowly lean toward submission.

Pavlov's theory of classical conditioning, absolutely brilliant.

[–]Femme_Murican[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's what the hubby revealed he'd been doing to me

[–]Femme_Murican[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I expect you to do this to your gf banqostoast :)

[–]Fucty_Artsy 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's not limited to just rubbing her clit but overall rewarding her through raising her dopamine. There are several alpha-moves to do that, eg. grabbing her by the back of her neck, pushing her against the wall and making out with her furiously, give her a good smack on her ass, grab her hair to pull her head back gently to kiss her bare neck etc.

[–]RevBoni 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

This an example of operational conditioning not classical conditioning. Dont think this is a valid move even, because for the learning of the association submissive movement = sexual pleasure she has to be conscious of that contingency. And I think the very fact when she is conscious of this contingency will turn her off, for she has to infer that you are deliberately manipulating and conditioning her into a submissive state. Therefore I think doing techniques like that will either not work or will turn her down.

[–]banqostoast 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

This is an example of operational conditioning not classical conditioning.

Actually it's not. Operational or Instrumental conditioning is when an individual performs a action to gain reward or avoid punishment, Consciously.

The whole idea behind classical condition is that the conditioned stimulus, being the clit rub is paired with the conditioned response to stimulus being the submission. The whole idea is that the conditioning occurs so the submission is associated in her head with pleasure, so she is more willing to be submissive.

[–]RevBoni 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Damn it you are right. I focused too much on active submissive movement but its rather the rewarding of an unconscious submissive state.

[–]banqostoast 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Haha I'm actually shocked that you're willing to admit that! Reviving my hope in internet people. Yeah I'm actually studying a subject on consumer behavior at university and was revising classical vs instrumental conditioning today haha.

[–]RevBoni 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Haha I made an exam on learning psychology three days ago. Apparently already forgotten half of it haha. And yea, your point is sensible so why not. People on the internet behave too much like self righteous dicks, I try to divert from such tendencies ;)

[–]banqostoast 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I owe you some thanks mate haha, I had an exam on the subject today and one of the questions was about instrumental vs classical conditioning.

[–]RevBoni 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Haha awesome! Hope it went well!

[–]LonelySavage 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

"I know some old sluts" :D :D

[–]robertguiscard 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you want her to associate submission with a positive feeling, you can train her by rewarding submissive movements (bending over etc etc) by rubbing her clit. This will give her a memory of sexual pleasure from when she submitted to you and then over time her wants will slowly lean toward submission, and this behavior will be rewarded and become more common.

Verbal rewards work for this purpose as well. When she obeys you give her praise, compliments, tell her specifically what you find sexy about her, etc...

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know this comment will get downvoted, but this belongs in /r/sex. While there are certainly gender specific roles for sex, being a man has very little to do with sexual technique and performance.

[–]sinfulmentos -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

A lot of red pill/pus lingo here...knowing reddit you're probably gonna be down voted hard on that basis alone despite having good factual information that applies to many women.

[–]Femme_Murican[S] 15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is a redpill presented sub right?

[–]sinfulmentos 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ooooooooooops. My bad, I saw this on my front page or something.

[–]Zackcid 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you know where you are buddy?



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