Feeling alone? Feeling like you have no motivation?
Welcome to the first day to the rest of your lives…
I impulsively felt a desire to write this because, like you, I am going to win in life. I want to inspire you to do the same.
Winners win because they attack EACH and EVERY day with their passion moving towards their goals. You are sitting there wondering why things aren’t going your way… I know this because if they were you would not be on this forum.
You’re being a b*tch. Plain and simple. You want to be a man? Good. You are moving one step closer just by reading this post while all of the other competition out there remains asleep and falling behind. We are NOT directly concerned with our competition because our biggest enemy is within OURSELVES. What separates us from everyone else is that we are a master of our own minds.
Conquer your mind and you will conquer the world.
You hate your body? Change that.
You hate when girls reject you? Improve your game.
You hate that you’re not achieving your goals? Work harder.
It is so easy to place blame on everyone but ourselves. Why? Because it hurts less. Why assume responsibility when you can blame someone else for the outcome?
“I haven’t been promoted because my boss doesn’t recognize my efforts” You’re being a btch. “I can’t go to the gym because I don’t have a car” You’re being a btch. “That girl rejected me because she’s [insert excuse]” No, you’re being a bitch.
Excuses are for b*tches. We all suffer from making excuses, every single one of us. With time being our most valuable asset in life, no one uses every second to the fullest potential. BUT, that is where self-improvement comes in and the perpetuating desire to succeed DRIVES US FORWARD.
“Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.”
The reason you don’t have motivation is because you DO NOT know what YOU want in life. You can sit here and read all of this motivational material, but you will never fully act on it. Why? Because you don’t know where the f*ck you are going. My mentor once told me, “Plan your work, then work your plan” If you don’t know where you are going in life, any path will take you there.
Men change their circumstances, they adapt, they create their lives based on what they desire. Take time and figure out what you want. Your life is a train, people will board the train and people will leave. Understand this. Trains continue moving forward, they don’t stop when things get in their way.
My ex-girlfriend and I split a few weeks ago. She told me to never speak to her again. Did the train stop? To think I’d compromise my success and progression is absurd. Has she heard from me since? Absolutely not. Has she been trying to contact me? Of course.
Create a life people desire to be a part of. They are coming along for the journey, they do not make or break it. When you have a purpose that strong, you will be well on your way to becoming the man you see in the mirror when you wake up. I want you to become that person.
I need to get back to what I am working on, but I’ll leave you with this. Take responsibility and you will regain the power to change your life in ways you have only DREAMED of. Stop making excuses for your current circumstances and start taking action. No one feels sorry for you, I have my own areas to improve, so do you. Become self-aware and recognize where you need to improve. Lastly, change your perspective on improvement; every day is a battle in itself. I see far too many people who are using this forum as an emotional tampon because they lost their motivation after a month. Again, you haven’t associated your action with purpose. Stop focusing on tomorrow, and focus on the present. Today is the youngest you will ever be and you cannot take that time back.
See you at the top or from the top.