How to Be an Attractive Man

What Makes a Hobby Attractive?

I won’t tell you which hobbies and skills are best for attracting women. Every personality is different, enjoys different things, and likes different girls. Pick hobbies and skills which align with your natural tendencies and talents.

Here are the guidelines for skill selection. It doesn’t have to meet all of these criteria. However, the more you can check off the faster you’ll see results.

Makes you the center of attention

Lead singer of a band, a competitive fighter, involved in politics at an electable level (even if its campus politics, the point is you are the one running, not supporting), or the teacher of a group of people.

Places you around women

Foreign language classes that women take, dance, yoga, charity/volunteer work

Forces you to compete with other men (in person)

Any sport, politics, any team, poker

Demonstrates applied intelligence

Foreign language, musical talent, astrological/occult knowledge, reading people

Demonstrates applied athleticism

Sports and teams, gym rat, crossfit

A few things about this list.

You can overlap almost all of these hobbies. The notable exception: There is no hobby where you simultaneously compete with men AND are surrounded by women. (note: being around is not the same is being on display) Your hobby or skill touches on as many points as possible. There are groupies for every male endeavor. Especially in applied intelligence hobbies or athletics. There are two ways a skill/hobby will make you attractive. The first is putting you around women. The second is making women admire you. If you HAVE to choose, pick the one that puts you around women. Things that make women admire you take more time to develop. HAVE MORE THAN ONE. In the world of socializing and romance, 1+1 = 3. This is how you position yourself as a network bridge and have some mystery. You’ll do better if you take a Spanish class, learn salsa and join an intramural team than only learning Spanish.