I need some advice on how to proceed with a soft next I've initiated, as well as some overall perspective on my situation with this one plate. I soft-nexted this girl when she said she wanted an "open" relationship; I've only seen her for about 2 weeks and she also shows several signs of sluttiness (navel piercing, string of non-serious relationships), despite coming from a religiously conservative country. Naturally I don't want to share her with someone else, even if I fuck around myself, so I asked her directly "If there's someone else, including now, tell me so I can pull out.", she said "You should pull out." I got up, got dressed, and walked out of the room. Apparently, the day after she went through some sort of breakdown, spending all day in her room. The following day she got wasted and people were around her giving her "emotional support"; I heard she wasn't in good shape. This brings me to today. I'd like to reinitiate things, but without compromising on my initial point of her not fucking around.
Before you tell me she's not worth the effort, normally I'd agree, but I'm in a closed environment with a limited number of females and in a foreign country.
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