How to deal with "haha yeah I was waaay too drunk"

[deleted] · 2014-04-15T21:38:26+00:00

[permanently deleted]

SneakyTouchy · 2014-04-16T01:25:01+00:00

"I'm not that type of girl"

She is that type of girl. Probably worse.

Personally, I would have left it there. I wouldn't want to stick my dick in that. I know others here might know how to spin it up and be all suave, but I've been down that road enough times and know it can come with a lot of drama and bullshit. The fact you have enough concern to post about this tells me you have little respect for yourself. Why the fuck are you wondering what she meant by what she said? She's a hoe who sucked your dick. Was it your first time???

Don't buy that she's worried about what you think, especially not now while she could be blowing someone else. You think while someone else's balls are slapping her chin that she'd worried about "Oh but he only sent me two texts, what does mean?" No, so why go there and make a fool of yourself? Don't stress about it. Keep pulling more bitches until you find one who doesn't leave you alone, that and has a little more self respect.

_and_a_PhD · 2014-04-15T21:32:27+00:00

A few points:

1) Be careful with fooling around with drunk girls. It is a recipe for disaster. Moreover, you shouldn't need to get her drunk to get her interested in you. A few drinks are fine to lubricate the situation, but if it is borderline on whether she will remember, you should always pass. There isn't enough detail here, but if she was drunk you should have passed, if she wasn't drunk, this is a shit test or she is dropping you from memory - being drunk is an excuse. Time to move on.

2) Never try and make anything out of a one night stand. If you want to spin, spin her if you see her again or if she contacts you. If not, there are plenty of other plates to spin. This is borderline "oneitis", moreover it breaks your frame to chase her even with texts.

[deleted] · 2014-04-16T05:54:54+00:00

Women only feel the need to say "I'm not that type of girl" or "I'm not like that" when their behavior clearly tells a different story. The drunk comment was her second nonsense cop-out. She's simultaneously trying to eradicate her feelings of guilt and pull the wool over your eyes. Fortunately you know better than to fall for her nonsense.

If you're interested in keeping her as a plate, reassure her a little, and then continue reaping the physical benefits. Comforting a woman really doesn't require much effort. "I know you're not like that, don't worry about it" (insert nod, comforting hug, smile). Say what she needs to hear to convince herself she's a 'good girl' and continue reaping the benefits of her slutty behavior.

aaron_the_just · 2014-04-16T03:12:00+00:00

I'd probably just avoid talking to her a week. When you feel like a sleazy hookup at 2 A.M., send her a text. "You up?"

caxica · 2014-04-16T13:15:19+00:00

I replied by saying we aren't ourselves when drunk,

lol so basically you validated her hamster

Even if you actually think this (which arguably you should not since alcohol merely lowers our inhibitions and doesn't change our core selves), you never should have admitted it.

redpillshadow · 2014-04-16T13:21:51+00:00

I replied by saying we aren't ourselves when drunk, etc.

That was the bigger mistake. You excused her slutty behavior while calling her a slut at the same time. Of course she is going to reply that she is not that type of girl.

nyrp · 2014-04-15T16:12:47+00:00

It's a pretty minor shit test. I'd ignore it.

Interpret it as her commenting on her hangover, not her trying to weasel out of what she did with you.

I really don't even think you need to be funny about it. Responding already puts too much importance on her saying that.

Skip to the next thought. Change the subject. At most, maybe use it as a segue. Yeah, but that guy at the party who did x must have been way drunker.

machimus · 2014-04-15T20:31:58+00:00

Dude, you still didn't do too bad, think about it. You had a good time at a party and a girl you just met blew you. That's above average.

So you texted her thanks, so what? You were grateful. You can totally recover. She just felt like a slut on hindsight when she remembered she doesn't know you well enough to just blow you like that.

The cognitive dissonance is not that she blew you, it's that she must have been drunk to blow someone that she didn't know that well--it's that she didn't know you that well.

So the obvious fix is to make her feel like when you met, you both felt like you've known each other a long time. Plant the inception in her head and she'll rationalize it and remember that she DID, in fact, feel like she's known you a long time.

captshady · 2014-04-15T16:50:38+00:00

You were drunk? Now how am I supposed to know if I like the real you, or the drunk you?

LasherDeviance · 2014-04-15T18:51:29+00:00

Respond like: "yea I need to get you drunk more often. how about tonight?"

Title	How to deal with "haha yeah I was waaay too drunk"
Author	Schrodingersdawg
Upvotes	6
Comments	22
Date	April 15, 2014 3:53 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/233nku/how_to_deal_with_haha_yeah_i_was_waaay_too_drunk/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-to-deal-with-haha-yeah-i-was-waaay-too-drunk.139386 https://theredarchive.com/post/139386