I met this religious girl...

twonomore · 2014-04-19T13:26:20+00:00

Very religious and non-religious don't mix very well (it depends as usual). I am assuming Christian, but she will get "the talk" about missionary dating and about "unequally yoked" from her parents/friends and church.

You can push and wait but if her beliefs are strong you may never get what you want.

Is this "women are meant to serve men and take care of all their needs" an actual quote? It seems she was telling you what you wanted to hear. What is she expecting from you? Did you ask about what she thinks is your role?

Proceed with caution.

throwwhatthere · 2014-04-19T14:32:46+00:00

I recently made a post reminding people of the fact that women are incapable of believing in higher principles than their feelz. I feel this is point is not given enough attention these days on TRP channels.

That being said religion is the ultimate exception to this rule. I believe in many ways it can be viewed as a hack that men use to control women (for EVERYONE'S benefit). The genius of religion is that it marries a woman's feelz to a higher principle. It actually embraces irrationality and provides women with a strong man to control them, which as we know is what all women crave and need.

Or to put it another way, god is the ultimate alpha male. You will never be more alpha than god. A woman who has been with god will never place you first. The best you can hope for is to be second to god, and to help her feel like she is complying with god's will. If you can place yourself between her and god, and serve as his representative to her, then she will eat out of the palm of your hand.

But please do NOT try to play this game if you don't have the stomach for it. You will never out-alpha god for her affections. And honestly, it's a waste of both your time.

Now, you can definitely fuck her, but please know you will only possess her body, not her mind. Any second tier male can get a romp in the sack (the woman does have physical needs) but the alpha will always own her mind. Think of a woman after god as the ultimate alpha widow.

I think I might really be onto something here, if people like it I can do a more considered writeup.

secret_barber · 2014-04-19T14:01:03+00:00

High investment, little return.

boydeer · 2014-04-19T16:23:26+00:00

i would encourage you to seek elsewhere. if she is genuine, she is seeking a certain arrangement with a man who shares certain values with her.

if she is intelligent, she will recognize that you are not this man. even if she is not but her family is healthy, you will have to navigate her entire familial social structure. as an atheist (or irreligious person), you likely do not have a family structure that can bear the scrutiny of a healthy family-oriented religious tribe.

probably the only way you can get what you want is if:

she is stupid
her family is unhealthy
she doesn't hold herself to her beliefs

in which case, you are making a terrible choice. if none of these are true, you are a predator, disrupting the life of a worthwhile human being who does not buy into the destructive social beliefs we are trying to fight. please don't do this.

dreamingawake09 · 2014-04-19T17:07:28+00:00

Honestly, you're wasting your time. I, along with other posters here have already gone down that road and its just a big waste of time and energy dealing with a religious girl if you're not religious yourself.

rangamatchstick · 2014-04-19T20:35:26+00:00

she.is.fucking.crazy.bail.A.S.A.P

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-04-19T13:53:24+00:00

I'm not sure how I would proceed, but for sure if I was at all attracted to her, I would find a way to stay in contact until I had a plan.

MegMartinson · 2014-04-19T16:32:23+00:00

See: "Jenny Erikson". Google it.

Now see: http://dalrock.com and read his articles related to Erikson.

That is what all too many christian women are these days. They make the typical barfly gold digger look attractive.

Just do NOT do it.

[deleted] · 2014-04-20T05:19:29+00:00

My friend has dated an extremely religious girl for a year or two. They get along really well but he hates religion. She also doesn't give up her body to him although she admits she gets "urges", and sometimes offers herself to him if shes drunk but he rejects it. He was the type of guy to always say he'd never be in this kind of relationship, but it happened.

Title	I met this religious girl...
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Date	April 19, 2014 12:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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