man I have somewhat of a problem. Ive been on trp for a little bit now. I grew up blue pill nice guy but I was also pretty cool and desired by chicks. the blue pill way worked for me back then. casual sex was not the blue pill way. it was about love and relationships and commitment. which is not to say that it doesnt feel good. it does. but perhaps it was also because I was a teenager back then and the teenage idea of love is very torrid and passionate and emotional. logic is blocked out by all these feelings. I wasnt necessarily attracted to many chicks. the Idea of just being in it for the looks never appealed to me. in my blue pill days, I got to know them a bit first and then felt the love attraction. anyways the girls I wanted, I got and they were beautiful too. sadly I spent my good youth days being stuck in relationships for awesome sex and mindless stress. the comfort zone was actually not that comfortable and it ruined me. I didnt have man game back then, Im sure I dont have any right now. But I have a little more confidence
Im not that person now so I have to learn this new person game. Im not intimidated by girls because of how hot they are anymore. I have anxiety because I dont know what to say. I can get past the "Hi, im so n so.. whats your name", But I dont know what to say after that. so my anxiety is based on my own fear of choking up on stage, being blank. I remember once around 6 years ago, I finally gathered the courage of going to talk to a beautiful lady from botswana and said hi and complimented her and then it just got awkward and silent from them. (she turned out to be young and married and with a kid)
I just want to know how to carry the conversation forward with ease, when to pin it down on something, when to let go, when to know to pull out etc, how to deal with bitchy remarks etc.. I need a coach !!!! teach me your ways sensei !!