Is sex worth the effort?

[deleted] · 2014-07-08T14:01:18+00:00

You sound like you haven't had good sex yet.

niczar · 2014-07-08T13:35:35+00:00

what is effectively 6 seconds of pleasure.

[deleted] · 2014-07-08T13:33:16+00:00

Yes it is. Now get out there.

kingofpoplives · 2014-07-08T15:26:48+00:00

Plate spinning definitely requires a lot of legwork. As does maintaining a relationship. I see your point, and have felt a few times, in the midst of having sex with a woman, that the pleasure of sex in itself is a bit overrated. Like yea, this feels pretty great, but this is what people are losing their minds over?

That said, I definitely start to suffer mentally and physically if I go without sex for over a month. My self esteem starts to decline and my body goes into a state of anxiety. My body wants sex, even if my mind might be over it.

It also makes a big difference who the sex is with. You need a lover that you have great sexual chemistry with.

I would say go with whatever feels natural to you. If you're over sex, not really interested in it, then its fine to not worry about it a while. If later you feel like pursuing sex, then go for it. You just don't want it to become an obsession or repression.

Tom_The_Human · 2014-07-08T13:45:02+00:00

If you are about the self improvement side of TRP but dont care about sex, try /r/MGTOW (sorry if it doesnt link)

seever · 2014-07-08T15:05:56+00:00

it's not just about sex, you need to use this knowledge and experience it a lot, learn from your mistakes.

this way you won't have any regrets in the future or on your death bed.

and you might even teach your son how to be successful with women.

now days handeling women is essential, just imagine meeting the girl that you want to spend your life with but you don't know how to makthe right moves. what are you just gonna settle for someone?

kami_kakushi · 2014-07-08T17:37:47+00:00

im not that interested in sex, i am far more interested in many other things

you got to decide for yourself

rockmasterflex · 2014-07-09T00:36:54+00:00

Depends on how fun sex is for you. If you can only do it for 6 seconds, stick to handgelina jolie.

magicalbird · 2014-07-09T12:24:15+00:00

It depends on you what you believe to be worth it.

I also don't have the drive to sleep with 100+ women because I don't like that lifestyle so I do more of serial monogamy.

It all depends on what your lifestyle is and what you want out of RP to help you.

Tom_The_Human · 2014-07-10T15:05:09+00:00

You don't even need a woman to have intense 2 minute long orgasms. Saying the girl sucks hence your pleasure is low is an excuse for your own laziness. Do a shit tonne of kegals and meditation and you will be having insane multiple orgasms like women have.

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Mr_Reardon · 2014-07-08T14:08:03+00:00

Most gaming is pretty basic manipulation and tends to work best on idiots, narcissists, and the terribly socially awkward. If there's effort behind it at all, yeah, I have to say I find it tedious to put forth said effort to sleep with idiots, narcissists, and the terribly socially awkward (yes, even if they're hotter than the hinges of Hell).

As you raise your personal value and your confidence follows as a natural result, the gaming side of TRP falls by the wayside. There comes a more organic attraction between you and others of quality (women and men, actually). The sex and/or relationships (depending on what you're looking for) fall into place all on their own.

Everyone's response is going to be different here and that's great - what your point of view is doesn't seem to be wrong at all.

mudra311 · 2014-07-08T14:58:44+00:00

The more you practice game, the less effort it takes.

[deleted] · 2014-07-08T13:53:39+00:00

yeah better become a beta monk, more fish in the sea for the rest of us.

Title	Is sex worth the effort?
Author	Tom_The_Human
Upvotes	10
Comments	40
Date	July 8, 2014 1:19 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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