So, in early 2013, I dated a girl for a few months. We got along really well - the chemistry was fantastic and I actually ended up rejecting another girl I was dating as me and her got more and more serious. The only problem? She was 27 (just turned), and I was too at the time.

She kept bringing up kids and marriage, and ultimately I had to end it - though neither of us really wanted to. I think she was trying to manipulate me into an official relationship (we technically weren't FB official). I had learned PUA but wasn't entirely redpill at that point, so I even told her to go and date another guy.

Well, after a month, I wanted her back because I liked her a lot. She rejected me for the other guy who was, "more serious". He was not, and dumped her after a few more months. I had oneitised on her and acted needy so she had lost attraction for me.

Eventually I just decided to ignore her, and even her attempts to get me back, even though part of me missed her.

She's very receptive to me, and I know that she is. Part of me still wants her, but she's not far from 29 now, and I'm sure she knows that. I haven't seen her since the night she rejected me over a year ago, and I date plenty of girls, many of them more attractive than her. I make much more money than I used to when I dated her and that will probably continue to increase.

So, in the SMV competition, I'm solidly beating her, and yet I still miss her sometimes - is that normal? How can I deal with this? She's obviously not a good long term match for me.