Girl I've been seeing for 4 months now. She broke up with her boyfriend at some point after we made out. We started going out, then we started banging. We have common friends. She's busy with her work in theatre and I'm busy. In addition to banging we go out, do stuff, i'm late 40's she's early 20's. She has told me a few things during our time together: she's seeing a shrink. She's on anti-depressants, she can be emotional. The only time I've seen any weirdness from her was the other night we met up at a dance class. She was completely odd: claimed to be "exhausted", wasn't focused, and when the lesson ended waved goodbye and left me. There was a kind of open period after that. I went, sat down, remained cool. Then left. Haven't spoken to her. We hadn't made plans to meet up. Normally I make the plans and she usually agrees unless she's busy. So...by remaining cool, seeing other girls in my rotation did I play this right? I suspect the problems are not me but related to other issues. I say this because we haven't argued and always have a good time. Is this her "depression"? is she pining away for some lost love? My idea is to leave it for a while and see how it goes while focusing on other stuff and girls.