I'm talking about my current GF. Met her about a year ago when I have never even thought about something like the red pill existing. Only thing I've heard of was basic PUA-Stuff. Anyway she is in her mid-twenties and before we had sex the first time she said she was a virgin. I totally believed her because I did notice she was hesitant, like something is bothering her. She is very introverted and shy towards new people. So it kind of made sense.

Couple month went by and at some point we talked about previous relationships and experiences. I was still blue pill then and basically said it's better I don't know because I can't get angry about it. In reality I was just afraid of hearing the truth. Now backing up a bit when she gave me the first blow job, unasked she didn't really ask for instructions and it was actually pretty good (especially compared to previous experiences). That made me think and no joke in the very same night I dreamed about her having been a prostitute for BJs only.

This was somewhat in the back of my mind constantly but I only got the balls to ask about her past last week. I insisted as long as i felt she has told me as much as she ever would. And well, she supposedly has already given BJ's to 3 other mean including him eating her out. Going by the 3x rule it was at least 9. I basically made a the calculation so she could her and she said no, only 3.But well, AWALT and she did drinks a lot... So 9. She insisted on being a virgin and I asked for her definition of it which is obvious by now. Penis in vagina. Fingers don't count, tongue don't count and ass neither. Again her drinking a lot might actually mean she hamstered away "real sex" as well...I will probably never know.

In the big picture this is still "better" than most women at that age but I do felt kind of betrayed by the virgin thing and disgusted as well. And boy she realized that I wasn't happy at all. I also told her about the study about amount of sexual partners and divorce rate and that this new info isn't exactly in her favor.

The good part about this she suddenly is more interested in sex than ever and also more enthusiastic about it. And she also said I'm the only one were she swallowed. I didn't say anything about what that might supposedly means...but I'm talking it as a good sign.

tl;dr

AWALT: Virgin unicorns definition of virginity is penis in vagina. Sucking dicks, getting eaten-out and taking it in the ass doesn't count.