This is one topic I have not seen discussed here at all. For me it has been a recurring problem. Was wondering if you guys have any experience dealing with this.

In every single one of my past relationships I noticed a similar trend, I am very attracted to them in the beginning. That period is of course very short lived and about 1-2 months of regular sex later my interest goes from "I WANNA EAT HER ASS!! ARGHH" to "sex would be nice".

It would be ok if things stopped there, my interest then continues to slowly decline to the point that after 6 months or so I am often the one avoiding sex in the relationship. And it really doesn't have anything to do with them not maintaining themselves anymore. I just simply am not turned on by em anymore no matter what. As much as I hate to admit it, the lack of chase kills it for me. I wouldn't even have a problem with that but the girls of course sense it and it WRECKS their self esteem.

Surely I am not the only one with this problem. What do yall do to happily keep hittin it year after year?