I apologize if this is too 'gamey' for askTRP but I am really looking for help and google has only returned some really vague advice which sort of helped point me in the right direction but I am looking for some specific, maybe anecdotal advice.

I've increased my smv. I dress better, slimmed up to a solid 160 sitting at 5' 9, good haircut, nice hygiene - my social skills are amazing and I am easily looked at as the most outgoing and confident of my closer peers. Read: I am able to approach and lock down a set if I want to, and I am always the one that 'does the talking.', and am generally leading any social event I go to with them. Not trying to talk myself up - this is contextual information. Essentially I have a lot of shit down as I've been working on myself for the past 2 years or so.

This past 6 months I have had success with women like no other for the first time in my life, I've rotated through 6 different girls with a short time of a few days to a week or so before sort of detaching and just breaking it off. This was one of my goals and I completed it.

But listen, I got these girls in a relatively passive way at bars and clubs, and one through having past rapport through a social circle.

My REAL goal is not a number count, my real goal is to feel confident in my ability to pull a girl by my own doing at pretty much any point I would like. Obviously, I am not going to just 100% land any girl I talk to for five minutes, but as it as now, like I said I got my 1 girl a month goal in a relatively passive way. I essentially just showed up in a sexual environment and didn't be fucking retarded. I really just conquered approach anxiety and wasn't weird and allowed myself to do what I wanted.

But in the club I still don't feel like things are really up to me. And I also am not feeling like I am really going to be super strong at club game because I am literally average. Sitting at 5'9 150-160lbs black hair, brown eyes. I am sort of trivial to some naturals that show up juiced at 6'2 who are just as outgoing and confident as me. That's just sort of how it is, I feel it's a bit more superficial in clubs and what not, correct me if my observations are wrong.

Regardless, I started running cold approach. There is a nice little downtown area where I live and it a really good venue for street game. I have little experience cold approaching but I have been trying these last couple of Fridays and I went through about 15 pretty good interactions total. My approaches were good, I had no problem getting their attention and building some interest/attraction but I sort of fizzled out after that and made some nice 'friends'.

I had enough runs to realize I was sticking on not creating any sort of sexual frame, and in fact I could notice the fucking disappointment in a couple of the girls when I didn't escalate beyond pleasantries.

I am having like a sexual intent anxiety and I do not really know how to transition that sort of context with cold approaching. I am having a hard time expressing physical attraction, kinoing, etc. It seems more natural in the club because well, I guess everyone else is doing it - that's the context of the place. But in the street, day or night, I just can't bring myself to really act upon the sexual intent and bring it out there and I am 99% sure once I break through this sticking point and figure out how to express this my abilities will be pretty solid as I have no problem approaching, finding some bullshit to talk about and build interest, and I can think on my feet pretty well to figure out logistical issues. I am good about making decisions and just running with it regardless whether I know how the hell it's going to turn out. I feel very strong and comfortable with ALL the other parts of cold approach / street game leading up to laying down sexual intent.

But with all that said, It feels really socially wrong / retarded to create this sexual frame with cold approach on the street so I don't do it. Do I need to give myself permission and just start pushing kino regardless? Do I need to be subtle about it? Is it okay to drop compliments because I usually don't.

It's a different sphere and I am not sure how to bring my sexual intent into street game or transition into it properly I suppose.

Any help would be really appreciated. I feel like things are really good right now, but this one damn thing is something I just can't really figure out what to do on my own. If anyone has experience with this anecdotal support would be highly appreciated.

And again, sorry if this is too 'gamey' for this sub - I just don't really know where else to turn and I think /r/seduction has a poor ratio of people that actually go out and know what they are doing and people that are new/keyboard jockeys.

Thanks again.