Hello guys.

Today I feel frustrated. I woke up at 5:30 am, worked out ( boxing), and took a cold shower. I went to class at 8. A good day so far. Three hours straight talking about William Yeats.

After class, I meet a 'friend'. He is my wingman. I was focused on asking this girl out. she comes out of class 30 min later. We go talk to them. I had some great conversations with a couple of guys while making small talk with her and her friend. The thing is I couldn't make a move on her in front of all these people.

To my surprise, my supposed to be friend started gaming her. He knows what I'm about to do. It goes on like this for a while. Now we are three guys and her. My 'friend' drops a bomb. He tells me that she is into the other guy. WTF ! The guy in a total AFC. My plans shattered. I'm frustrated.

I do all the right things. I do not know what to do now. I feel like a need to give ''life'' the middle finger, focus on my studies and boxing.

Enlighten me brothers. I feel lost in a sea of bullshit.

EDIT : after running a few miles, the frustration is gone.

Here is what I came to understand from your comments and my blood pumping cardio :

  • I have oneities for the girl.
  • My friend is an asshole.
  • I called the guy she is into an AFC because he reminds me of myself. Good old Projection.
  • I should be focusing on my shit and not give too much time to anyone if they don't bring any value to the table.