Never forget that women have no switch. They are fluid and bereft of anything definitive when it comes to their choices. Never believe for a moment that they "have a good side". They have no good side, they have no bad side. They have no sides at all. They are just one big field of a self-serving grey area they call their 'choice'.

Many men tend to think to themselves,

"Man... she was so good to me until -X-, and then bam, she completely changed..."

What a guy might think is that the 'her' he was she shown was the 'real' her. Never make this mistake. What he saw was what she wanted him to see at that given moment. Some call it manipulation, others call it 'the way women are'. Call it what you will, but never forget the fact that nothing about her is set in stone.

When a woman makes a decision, she does so, in part, based on her modified version of history. Her history, much like any decision she makes, is as fluid as they get. She will passively shrug off any semblance of responsibility of any action she has made in an effort to make sure that her current decision has her full confidence backing it up. (Hamstering)

Within the mind of a woman, there is a lingering fog, one absent of color or form. This fog is what allows her twist former truths and change things to fit her feminine imperative.

When you tread the chaos within her, you, as a Man, create a zone of control. Every step you take has a definitive yes or no attached to it.

Black on one side, white on the other.

Yes's and No's.

Rights and Wrongs.

You become an area of serenity that women secretly (or sometimes not so secretly) drool over. It is this mental, social, financial, personal and private serenity that these women secretly salivate about. Possessing that confident aura is what draws the attention. Continuing to be that 'rock', as they say, is what keeps them around. (Frame Control. Confidence.)

I did have more to write, but will have to continue brainstorming on my point. More to come at a later date.