After my own personal experiences and a dose of TRP I find myself having virtually no interest in women anymore. Is this normal?

FortunateBum · 2014-05-08T00:34:45+00:00

Welcome to MGTOW!

IllimitableMan · 2014-05-08T00:13:17+00:00

Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance

BluepillProfessor · 2014-05-08T01:41:57+00:00

I should have a macro for these new posts.

Yes when you unplug you realize ALL the women in your life LIED to you about how to attract them. You see the hamster when they talk. You smell the hypergamy. You can feel the Shit Tests all the way to your bones. It pisses you off.

Then you realize most of the women who "lied" didn't even know they were "lying." Most of them just have no clue what turns them on. Most of them are easily swayed by the herd. Most of them have never even thought about it.

Getting mad at women is like pissing into the wind and blaming the storm for when you get sprayed. Don't piss into the wind.

Instead take your anger and use it to build an Alpha I don't give a shit frame and watch the women fall all over themselves for you.

Women don't really want to be treated 'like crap.' They want to hook their wagon to a powerful man who is their superior. THAT man, that powerful, Alpha male treats them indifferently (not like crap) because he is superior to them.

But yah, totally normal.

BaltoSquadGuy · 2014-05-08T00:02:29+00:00

Well, I can relate to what you wrote. But I would say trying talking to women that aren't at bars. Part of your problem is you're looking for women in the wrong place. Women that frequent bars typically have a lot of issues and as I've said before, the bar environment is designed to prevent effective communication; it's optimized to get people to drink as much as possible. Your lack of interest is partially related to the types of women you have been pursuing: drunken degenerates.

slomotionhighscore · 2014-05-08T02:28:51+00:00

So for the record, everything you wrote makes perfect sense to me.

The 'trouble' of it all no longer seems to add up. I wish I had such insights when I was 24.

It sounds to me like you've effectively side stepped the expectations of society. This is almost always a good thing and you should be commended.

I'm 10 years older than you and I can't even imagine wanting a long term 'we might have kids' relationship until I'm in my early to mid forties.

I think it's normal to feel a little weird about it. But yeah, working out and doing things that make you more confident easily beat having to play 'entertainer' for some babe.

rporion · 2014-05-08T00:00:49+00:00

You might be leaning more in the MGTOW direction, I dont see anything wrong with that.

2014-05-08T07:57:04+00:00

Swallowing the Red Pill is bitter for sure, and if you're smart it's also depressing. You ask "why?" about women, if you're genuinely seeking an answer look into biology, evolution and learn why we're basically the way we are, all the answers for behaviour come from biology, watch some of GirlWritesWhat's videos on youtube she addresses much of the male/female behaviour and explains a lot of the negative female traits and their origins.

Sounds like you've gone your own way now, which is good. Work on yourself and work on improving your life, ignore women for now and once you've created a good life for yourself and you've found a way to be happy without the need for women, you'll find that you naturally become more attractive to the kind of women you want to attract.

It's not all that uncommon for smart people to have abnormal feelings, once you wake up and see the world for what it really is, it's not always a pretty picture, it's normal to find yourself less attracted to women after taking the Red Pill...

It's like being told how a magic trick works, once you know, it loses all its wonder. You're more knowledgeable for knowing how it works but in gaining that knowledge you've lost something else.

musicvita25 · 2014-05-08T10:06:42+00:00

I went on my best run. I'd gotten more ass then ever. However I devoted so much time to it. Texting, calling, tweeting, facebooking, arranging plans, taking them out, hotels, driving (so much driving), so much of the same conversation "I do this, are you kinky, oh youre cheeky, do you like x and y, bla bla bla"

The conclusion is depressing depending how you interpret it and respond to it mate - All women are the same. All women are boring. All women are too far gone in this age of feminism. You are one of around 10 different guys she's talking to at the same time. Above all it is mentally and physically effort to play the game. But thats a players lifestyle. He devotes his life to getting pussy. I enjoyed it, but now I'm on a come down.

It was like a drug, I sat up in bed thinking just how much ass I got. How many I took out. How many I pulled, fucked, spoke to. I look at my phone, hardly any message me, because I have to instigate most of the time. Again "effort."

All honesty, just accept thats the way it is, do a little detox, then get back into the game. Only live once.

isthatyourdaughter · 2014-05-08T00:28:14+00:00

I'm at the prime in my life and my sex drive is so low.

Every red pill man should get his T levels checked.

ibuprofiend · 2014-05-08T01:52:32+00:00

I experience the same thing, and I'd say it's normal. It's tough to admit, but our attraction to women goes way beyond sex... we want the One, the perfect best friend and life partner that everyone says we'll eventually find. We crave and desire that at least as much as we do sex, and when you finally accept that the One is a fantasy, your attraction drops off fast. The only appealing thing left about women is sex, and as long as you're jerking off occasionally that doesn't really have much control over you.

Congrats, you're finally free of that great biopsychosocial curse, attraction to women. Now you can choose if you want to pursue them anyway just for sex, or if you want to strike out on your own as one of the men going their own way, or MGTOW. I've chosen the latter path.

edit: Note though that sex drive varies with a lot of things... this might just be temporary for you. In any case, I wouldn't be too concerned about it. No man has ever been harmed by focusing his life on more important things than getting his dick wet.

magicalbird · 2014-05-08T00:15:30+00:00

I want real conversations and real experiences. meet interesting people

OP, while I believe in TRP philosophies for sexual strategy I will go against the grain here and say that making attractive female friends is a cool experience because you will gain social proof for other women to come by and you can use their connection to meet other cool people for real conversation and real experiences, both men and women.

I live a simple life. I have five close friends, three of which are female. I use their circles to check out if there is any quality. I also use their circles to make male friends for activities. I also get to share interesting experiences with them that don't include sex. If they start ranting too much about some other guy I ignore them, change the topic, or next them for a while.

2014-05-08T00:20:37+00:00

I'm not why some people act as if they have to have a woman (not saying you). Not to mention, that there's more to life than pussy.

2014-05-08T00:52:04+00:00

Women don't want to be treated well is the message I've learned.

Not exactly. They want a leader, not a servant. They want to feel like they are in a relationship with someone who is at the very least their equal; one in which they must earn affection, not receive it as a default. There's a reason for the discussions of balancing alpha and beta traits in a LTR/marriage.

I'm at the prime in my life and my sex drive is so low.

Is it the sex drive or the belief that sustaining a relationship is not worth the effort?

2014-05-08T07:04:32+00:00

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AdbelR · 2014-05-08T03:12:16+00:00

24 and going through it now. You are not the only one and I understand where you are coming from. Not sure if the red pill is all it says to be, but it does reveal some truths that are just helpful in life for anyone. Concentrating on other things besides girls as you say increase productivity and confidence. Have fun on the Asia trip by the way, love to travel but don't have the money yet.

awfukbye · 2014-05-08T03:50:18+00:00

I just figured something out by reading your post that may make you feel better of why women are attracted to bad behavior.

Men and women are alwahs different in a relationship. The man dominant. The woman submissive.

Bad behavior towards a woman is a turn on because it is a dominant trait. Obviously smv value comes in to play. So I believe dominance is only icing on the cake or rather the glue that holds the relationship balance in place. If the man were to be less dominant or the woman less submissive then the other party would have to be more dominant/submissive to keep the balance. Also most fights in a relationship are merely a balancing of power. Not sure what to do in thpse situations as from personal experience backing down is not smart neither not bending because women will hound you until you break and once you do break they will no longer respect you. And thus is mans curse

sam_ba_lam · 2014-05-08T13:44:56+00:00

Magenta Pill here. I've swallowed The Red Pill where the outcome is, paradoxically an awareness of relationship and a recall of what this pertains to in regards to quality of relationship.

This has resulted in the paradox of MGTOW and gaming and for now, there is a balance of both. If one does not go their own way and find the truth as it is, not only in terms of biological function but in the context of universal law, which is amoral in it's nuance and movement thus absent of law, then one will find themselves in the trap of the social construct and be numbed by it's trap.

The game exists within the trap; it must be implemented to facilitate social understanding, allowing the individual to move in such ways that are of benefit to the individual and his relationships.

Edit: Editing

BRENDORVEGAS · 2014-05-08T16:00:40+00:00

Dude dont even fret.

2014-05-08T18:02:04+00:00

Yep, it's normal. I'm reasonably new to TRP as well. Used it recently to pick up a cute 22-24 year old I'd had my eye on. Confidence, maintaining frame, giving zero fucks.... End of the night came, and she had to go home to handle some housework. Had the line ready to go, "I'd like to see you do housework, I bet you have a little apron and everything."

Maybe it would have worked, maybe not, but I noticed I was running game and it was working. And I suddenly felt horribly turned off. Ended up walking away from sex, literally doing an about-face in a parking lot.

Takes time to heal, I hope. Learn new things, build a better body, come back with your head together and a focus on what you desire.

Almost_legit · 2014-05-08T19:09:36+00:00

I think it is called taking the pussy off the pedestal OP.

trydoingitbackwards · 2014-05-08T19:30:03+00:00

I feel this way, i when you factor all the variable you sort of come to the conclusion that women are not worth it. I disagree with most of these guys by saying you should be more "alpha", their lives still revolve around women and to be frank, it is real sad. When some guy alters his behaviour to attract women, it still puts women in power because the men changed for THEM. Its your life man, don't change. If you do, do the things that matter to you the most.

slcjosh · 2014-05-08T21:15:32+00:00

Its what I went through. I focused on myself.

skyw4lk3r · 2014-05-09T01:43:11+00:00

The only normal in reality is the normal you get to decide. Period

Menadian · 2014-05-12T19:56:01+00:00

You felt betrayed. Of course you do not really like that. Quite an intelligent response to all this knowledge

thesaltysoup · 2014-05-08T04:30:43+00:00

I have been totally feeling this. Lost my virginity last Friday to a plate that I had a fling with a couple months ago (she is a 7.5, I dropped her because she was giving me shit-this was even before TRP). Fucked her again yesterday. And you know what? I could frankly care less.

I have been seeing other girls. I have been making moves on other potential plates, reading TRP and generally being busy with life. Only the busyness of my life is really important to me now-sex is not really that important (not that I mind it, of course). Is the game over? Is the pursuit over? Am I free to do whatever I want, and stick it in whenever I feel like it, just to get off? This feeling is quite odd.

Sorry for the stream-of-consciousness, and thank you TRP for all the advice and help.

2014-05-08T07:29:11+00:00

You are approaching Nirvana.

OnlyJerkOffToBukkake · 2014-05-08T18:43:14+00:00

No you're just a delusional faggot

Title	After my own personal experiences and a dose of TRP I find myself having virtually no interest in women anymore. Is this normal?
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	37
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Date	May 7, 2014 11:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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