I'm 40 and all my life I've had a problem with nervousness around women I find to be super attractive. No problems with 8s or lower, but with the ultra hotties I get very self-conscious no matter how I try to frame it. I try to picture them without makeup, as a bratty kid sister, as an old woman, etc.. trying to help myself relax but so far nothing has worked. I have opened with some of them and they seem receptive to talking at first, but pretty soon the jitters get to me and I end the convo and give up.
Anyone have any tips they would like to share to strengthen frame in these situations?
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