In my transition to discovering TRP I came across FetLife. It started because I really liked the sexual relationship I had with my LTR at the time. We were adventurous and we fucked a lot. We learned how to make her squirt, we tried rape-play, other kinds of role-playing, light forms of bondage (no legit ropes but hand tying), choking her during sex, overall I discovered I liked a dominant relationship with a submissive. Later on I discovered she was what the community calls a brat. Very head-strong and stubborn.

So I really liked this and wanted to find it again. I discovered fet life and have been lacking with the results. The one girl I had to come over wasn't very pretty. Hell most of the girls on there in my town really aren't my type save for 2. however there have been a lot of sexual dynamics that have broadened my understanding and some munches throw parties that I can attend. For instance, I met a girl on Tinder who was into Daddy Dom/Lil Girl dynamics. From what I read it reminded me of my Dom/Bratty Sub LTR I liked with a bit more "cute" thrown in the sub side for the LG.

I feel I'm at a cross roads. TRP will improve my life and I can day game. FetLife will has broadened my limited understanding on sexual lifestyles- something that I've found most women spend time discovering about themselves. They like being "mentored" by men who know what they're doing.

So it is important that I learn from FetLife but there are so many "lifestyles" you can get lost in that rabbit hole.

TL;DR: Experienced FetLife TRP members, how do you effectively use FetLife? I'm getting overwhelmed by the amount of knowledge I realize I lack in the fetish department. It makes sense to stick to what I know and only gravitate to fetishes I naturally am attracted to, but I know so little about these things.