Nice guys on their journey to assertiveness, boldness, and stoicism find themselves in company that no longer accepts the newly born Red Piller for various reasons. Perhaps they have become assertive among spineless friends. Perhaps they are more demanding of how people treat them- respect the Journeyman calls it. This is something he unintentionally denied himself for years and his peers diagnose it all of a sudden being a jerkTM.

These few examples paint a picture where a person is out-growing their friends. This extends beyond friendship and affects all social aspects of the Journeyman's life. People he once surrounded himself drop like flies. Concerned texts and e-mails make their way into his inbox. Long-time friends scold his behavior and yet the Journeyman sees that his actions are pure and self-serving. He truly did not know his friends and they, him. There is a pecking order and he climbs his way to the top while others claiming good intentions hold him back.

None of them will understand. Not a one.

As a nice guy turned Red Pill Journeyman, swallowing the pill out of sexual frustration he finds himself being vocal about sexual themes for once. Jokes, comments, facebook posts... all fair game. Although he knows of other company that exceed himself in terms of lewdness and vulgarity, his own company see these as shocking and inappropriate.

The Journeyman swears more too. He is comfortable with these words, has always liked them, and never had the balls until now to openly swear where he sees fit.

Moderation and know your company are important as always. The Journeyman would not enter a church for instance and be lewd and vulgar. Classiness is at power here. Give his character the assertion of common sense.

The women I personally have encountered that claim "I should find a classy girl" were sluts in college. I like a girl I can curse around and be perverted with because that dips into honest character. So therefore I should find myself being comfortable expressing my tastes in lewdness and vulgarity instead of hiding behind a mask of classy lies.

What does TRP have to say about being Classy vs Lewd and Vulgar in company of women (in moderation of course)?