So long story short ive been going to church and most guys dont lift there or arent in very athletic shape, but today we got a new guy and when he went up to take the podium i felt sort of amogged (biceps wise). Dude was in a shirt showing off his building like frame and it got to me. My pride took a hit because i could literally feel the temperature rising as the women and men stared in awe of his Sylvester stalone like stature. I mean, these are church girls. So come on. Compared to him, im more akin to zac efron. Buff, but not stalone buff.

How do i deal with no longer being the one with the most impressive biceps? Can i supplement it with other things? For example, im 3 years older than the dude and i have good game, more knowledge about women's nature than he does, so do you think its not the end of the world no longer being the most 'alpha' looking of the group?

Thanks for your input. I am starting my bulk next week because i realized im not as big as i could be.

And no, im not insecure im just curious about how to stand out as alpha amongst someone twice your size. The girls were giving me the googly eyes before and id like to keep it that way. I must stay AMOG .