To kclose or not to kclose, that is the question.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-11-05T14:27:06+00:00

That's interesting I used to do this when I was self taught.

I live in a country where PDA is frowned upon so kclose is difficult and best not attempted, it's just not going to be comfortable for her.

Also I thought it played into the "base" analogy, which I've never really experienced since high school. basically if I'm kissing her it's the start of fucking. Not first base today, second base tomorrow, etc. I think it's easier for the girl to withhold sex if she is still getting physical intimacy with you.

So it's an all or nothing proposition, if she likes me and wants to get physical, it is happening on my bed,many from there no games just fucking.

The logic to not kclose is if you have a girl that's 50% into you, you appear less needy by not going for the kclose and seem to be in sync with her taking it slower. If she is not too into you and you try to take her home that could push her away.

A few hiccups here or there but it's worked.

FrameWalker · 2015-11-05T12:30:38+00:00

If you're going for lower smv women they already have a massive amount of sexual tension towards you. If they're high smv being bold cocky and physical is required. Maybe that's a kclose, a kiss open in the club, or a nonchalant butt grab. High risk high reward

secret_barber · 2015-11-05T14:20:41+00:00

I push escalation as far as it will go, starting small and slow. Kclose always, if I have any intention (whatsoever) of continuing. If I don't kiss the girl, I've decided to hard next.

Title	To kclose or not to kclose, that is the question.
Author	Borsao66
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	November 5, 2015 6:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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