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How to keep frame when you are hitting/talking to a girl and her/his friend comes over and tries to stop you or lower your value or break your frame ?

by Nikelu | November 05, 2015 | askTRP

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example.you are talking to a girl,and her female/male friend comes over and says like she dont wanna talk to you,or interrupts you or just gets between you two etc.how to act in that situation


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Title How to keep frame when you are hitting/talking to a girl and her/his friend comes over and tries to stop you or lower your value or break your frame ?
Author Nikelu
Upvotes 2
Comments 12
Date 05 November 2015 07:15 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/156154
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3rny3l/how_to_keep_frame_when_you_are_hittingtalking_to/
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Another way is to call them out. "You're being very rude. I'm trying to talk to your friend here; and you're interrupting me. We were having a conversation here and you've interrupted it. Go away."

[–]Nikelu[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

this is pretty solid.doesnt go away sound impolite tho?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The third person is being impolite by interrupting you.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy

Ignore them. Literally don't even make eye contact and just ignore them. Pretend they don't exist. If someone disrespects you then they don't deserve an investment of your attention. Focus your attention on the girl you're talking to, and if she is into you then she'll make it clear that it's OK for her to talk to you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Head in the sand approach is terrible advice. What are you going to do when her friend stares at you and says "hello? i'm talking to you! are you retarded as well as <previous neg here>?"

[–]RPAlternate420 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You offer criticism with no solution:

You are the noise... Be the signal.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Top comment already has the answer, doesn't need to be repeated.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Then you look at them and tell them you're in the middle of a conversation. If they won't leave you alone then excuse yourself and talk to some other attractive girl. The girl you were originally talking to will naturally see your abundance mentality and try to get your attention again...or not. Doesn't matter.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

You probably shouldn't be giving advice if you're only going to poach the ideas from other comments.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

What are you talking about? I gave my opinion, i don't need to poach shit. If you disagree, then downvote and move on with your life.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

You have a halfassed answer, and when I called you out for how stupid it was, you poached the other top comment in this thread.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I didn't poach anything. I didn't even read other comments, i just respond to comments in my inbox. Don't go throwing around accusations like that. If you think my answer is stupid, then fine, whatever I don't care. But I'm not here for meaningless karma, I am here to help younger dudes who are suffering. Good luck to you.



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