New Year's Eve, the company for which I'm a contractor got fired, and the employees had the option to go in-house. I (M/59)couldn't work the hours that they offered me, so, that was my last shift there. My lead (F/52) came in to take over for the next (and last) shift. (At this point, I will note that I had always thought that she was hot, and, when I started there, 2 years ago, I thought that she gave me IOIs, though I never followed up, or made any moves. I was very BP/chickenshit at the time.)

We spoke for a bit, and I asked her for a goodbye hug. I got a good hug, and then, our bodies separated, tho I still held onto her, with my arms around her waist. I then asked her for a goodbye kiss. She gave me a grandma kiss on the lips, and I said "That's not a goodbye kiss! That's a (can't remember what term I used) kiss!" She gave me a little better one, and I made some witty comment. She made a few amused remarks, and I got several not bad kisses, though not scorching. She didn't seem resistant, and, again, some light amused remarks. (In context, I was on my way to my next job when I did this, so, there wasn't a lot of time for real smoking hot tongue stuff.)

Somewhere during this interlude, I said "Let's go out sometime", and she said "OK". It seemed like at least a semi-enthusiastic "OK". To be honest, I was amazed that she gave me the kisses, as I was expecting her to just go quiet and say, "I don't think that would be a good idea." I had to leave for my other job, she had to get to her business, and told her I'd talk w/her later.

Later that night, she texted and phoned me about something job related, just to inform me about what happened. I didn't see the messages for a while, but, I later found them and called her back. Since I was at my other job, I had to keep it short.

Next actions: 1. Texted her (same night) to send me a pic of her. No response. 2. In the morning (New Years Day), I texted her to invite her to breakfast. She curtly said "No thanks, I'm moving (to which she had previously adverted, so, it wasn't a lie)". No counteroffer. 3. I texted "OK, enjoy it". 4. She responded "LOL, I wont enjoy it! I hate moving! blah, blah." 5. Later that night I texted her to send me a selfie. No response.

That was Jan 1, midnite, and she hasn't made any other response, so, I've figured out that I ain't gonna get no selfie! Now, I will probably run into her again to pick up my last check. (Unless they mail it.) So, I have 2 courses of action in mind, and I want to run them by you guys to see which one to go with, though, I'm open to other suggestions.

A. Write off my losses, and just treat her like I have for every other day that we have worked together, other than NYE.

B. I suspect that she will be there with other employees, so, I would just address her, after getting my money, and asking her to walk me out to my car. And, once at my car, if she does go, escalate. I also suspect that she told at least one other person there of what happened. (The reason that I think that this might work is because, as I said earlier, that I was surprised that she gave me the kisses, and, in person, she may be more amenable than she was with text. Also, she may be overwhelmed/caughtoffguard by my Chadlike boldess.)

That's all I got. Any input?