My ex dumped me three months back. She was very wishy-washy when I wanted to schedule a meet.

I acted like a chump, blew her phone with calls that she never picked up, showed up at her work place which is also my previous office.

She was courteous, did not act as f she was disgusted. This was on 17th of December 2015. I then asked her that we should meet for coffee on 9th of January( I am in another city 3.5 hours away)

She said ok...but did not initiate any conversation over the last 25 days. I whatsapped her on 12th January......no reply.

My question is that I have heard that she is dating someone new. But she is not that active on Whats app.

When we were dating we were very active on whatsapp in the evenings.

Especially when it comes to new relationships, people can not get enough of each other.

Is she even dating someone new? Or did she date someone new for a while and that too did not workout and in the meanwhile I blew up my chances by acting weak?

I know, the standard response is to go find other women, but I need your perspective on this?

Is she even dating someone else or was my weak behavior by itself enough to repulse her?

Also, both of us are in one common whatsapp group.....i have been sending jokes etc on the group.....but its not working.