In person, tinder game, text game, it's all in question here.

I haven't had much success being shamelessly sexual. My lays never involved much sexual vocabulary more kino than anything (so I suppose that's "physically sexual"). But I want to be verbally sexual. I get a thrill saying risky things out loud. Patrice O'Neil talks about saying dirty shit and owning it but that hasn't worked for me yet.

I want to see if anyone's had positive experiences being dirty right out of the box.

For instance with Tinder, usually I play bad boy with a hint of tact, but there was this one bitch witch huge tits. Like god damn. She liked me first and this is tinder after all, we're not here to go hold hands in the park. So I drop her with "God damn I want to suck those titties." Unmatched me. Bitch what you think I'd call you sweetie pie while I creamed your ass? I'm not complaining. Just sharing my experience and why I ask.

(Day game is a whole different story naturally. I would never drop sexual jokes right out of the opener. But I would slide them in on a meetup or "date" depending on the mood of the date. Haven't done much nigh gaming but I imagine being vocally sexual would work good.)