How can I make it clear I want nothing more than a ONS?Girls seem to get obsessed too fast

vandaalen · 2016-01-17T10:38:46+00:00

How is that even possible if you just fuck them and leave?

Whisper · 2016-01-17T13:11:07+00:00

Why do you care if it's clear or not?

Fuck. Depart. Mission accomplished.

balancespec2 · 2016-01-17T16:01:57+00:00

I've never had a girl obsessed with me. They always are fine with FWB. The be honest this is kind of insulting to me. They let me so all kinds of fuckd up things to them sexually including film it but rarely pursue me.

Is it because I date below my SMV and they don't want to rock the boat? Or because I go after pushovers? Ive never had a fwb get clingy

JamieCoxx · 2016-01-17T18:15:47+00:00

If I am trying to plate someone what I do is give it to them. After that I tell them no bull shit, no pussy footing, no beating around the bush that I don't do relationships and there is no chance of anything more then sex. Some are receptive and feel the same way, and some beg for something more, these you never call again (get a burner and give them that number.) Just be upfront and blunt.

Nikelu · 2016-01-17T20:30:20+00:00

Build a harem. Make demands of the girls. Have them jump through hoops to get your time and energy. Maybe get them to find you more girls themselves. Make them compete with each other. Drop them if they refuse you anything.

trpdgc · 2016-01-17T20:40:02+00:00

For ONS you have to have high SMV, escalate quickly, and don't be too romantic. Start complimenting them and taking them on dinner dates and you're BF material. Make them thirst for validation and want to touch your biceps and they'll realize you're too hot to lock down.

2016-01-18T17:54:40+00:00

Women don't determine whether it's a ONS or not, you do, what the fuck are you even talking about? Want a ONS then fuck them and cut all contact, it's not rocket science.

Title	How can I make it clear I want nothing more than a ONS?Girls seem to get obsessed too fast
Author	Nikelu
Upvotes	8
Comments	28
Date	January 17, 2016 10:01 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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