I actively have two plates going and have recently added a third and have a fourth as potential coming up. The issue I'm having is first of all the blue pill Nice Guy programming of feeling guilty about multiple partners, which is something I'm working on daily.

So for example, today I have lunch with one, picking up another at the airport tonight coming back from a trip and will spend the night with her, then tomorrow night have another one coming over for sex.

First questions are - how do you deal with plates knowing about each other? Do you openly let them know you're dating more than one person and if they choose to fall, then so be it? And if they stick around, how do you deal with them dating/sleeping with other guys?

I still have a ton of blue pill programming I need to get rid of, most prominently the thought that if she's banging me I don't want to know she's dating/banging other guys too. I realize this is beta thoughts.

Then there are logistics - if they don't know about the others, you simply tell them you're busy when they ask what your plans are, correct? It's not like they need to know what you're doing and with who.

Any keys you have found for these nice guy feelings and getting rid of them? I am the guy in NMMNG to a T and am working constantly on changing that but I'm not there yet and I feel like I've opened a can of worms that I can't stuff back in at this stage.