UPDATE: I'm only one inch taller than her, but she continued the conversation. Her replies were well meaning and polite. I'm not looking for advice on how to turn it around. Just trying to present things as they are.

Lessons learned: stand up for yourself while maintaining frame (I don't think I maintained. My response was kind of cranky. A joke or just the straight up answer would have been much better) Don't get upset with women for being the way they are, just keep looking for the best women available.


I'm average height for where I live. It's rarely a problem for me with women. Recently I was messaging a woman online. She replied with several questions about the usual things women want to know. When I got to "How tall are you" I became annoyed.

I prefer fit women with big boobs. Can I start asking them their cup size and bodyfat% in the first few messages? I'm trying to figure out what it is about that question that rubbed me the wrong way since I'd probably pass the test anyway.